Interesting article from Asian author Celeste Ng (Everything I Never Told You).
https://www.thecut.com/2018/10/when-asian-women-are-harassed-for-marrying-non-asian-men.html
This is a whole thing that Asian women constantly have to deal with. I know this anecdotally as well. The article does sympathize with the men at some points though, pointing out it's extremely tough for Asian men when society constantly denigrates their masculinity and self-worth. The main message though, is that trying to control women is not the answer.
https://www.thecut.com/2018/10/when-asian-women-are-harassed-for-marrying-non-asian-men.html
The men who harass me know three things: I'm Chinese-American, my husband is white, and our son is multiracial. You hate Asian men, they insist; you hate your own child. You hate yourself. I once received 27 tweets — calling me everything from "irrelevant" to "liar" to "coward" to "neglectful gaslighting mother" — in 48 hours, from one person. I save these messages in a folder on my computer to document the abuse. Whenever I upgrade my laptop, I copy them over, little packets of poison I must keep and carry forever.
This is a whole thing that Asian women constantly have to deal with. I know this anecdotally as well. The article does sympathize with the men at some points though, pointing out it's extremely tough for Asian men when society constantly denigrates their masculinity and self-worth. The main message though, is that trying to control women is not the answer.