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Oct 25, 2017
4,717
I'd say just give it like a week or so before you start spending it.
But other than that, congrats on the cash my dude.
 

Syriel

Banned
Dec 13, 2017
11,088
Should I be worried? Should I spend it? Are there people out there who spend money like this? Maybe he was just lonely? I mean, I'm not poor myself, and he knew that. But it's always nice to receive money. Maybe he expects something in return the next time he sees me?

Honestly, that sounds like a potential bribe that would be against the ethics policies of most companies.
 

Shake Appeal

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,883
This is probably not a scam, but I would avoid spending any of that money, and be extremely wary if he asks for any of it back--or if he asks for any favors or quid pro quo at all. Since you're in Europe, you have much stronger bank security than Americans do, so don't sweat it too much.

Can you elaborate on this part, though?

He asked me many questions about my heritage and how I ended up in this company. I told him a few things about myself and he seemed interested in what I had to say.

I'm curious what you might have told him about yourself that would have triggered this.
 

Orin_linwe

Member
Nov 26, 2017
706
Malmoe, Sweden.
Friend of a friend used to mow this guy's lawn and other landscaping duties for a few years. Everyone was sure the man was gay but was never out about it. When he died he left EVERYTHING to the kid. A four bedroom house, two cars, and several hundred THOUSAND dollars.

I don't mind your story being out there, but I'm trying to drink and recuperate after a pretty trying week.

I don't want to be reminded of what I could have ended up like, if I lived my gay adult life way-back-when, and this was the pathetic decisions I made as I died.

Cheers/love.

(and with this I'll bow out of this thread, and dive into "This War of Mine", a more compartmentalized, abstract, but also therapeutic kind of sadness)
 

Red Liquorice

Member
Oct 27, 2017
9,080
UK
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weekev

Is this a test?
Member
Oct 25, 2017
6,215
At my work we have to declare shit like that to our ethics department. He defo wants something in return but 10k is 10k. I'd be spending more time having conversations with him.
 

Mr Delabee

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,165
UK
Be sure to check, if you can, your regions bribery and corruption laws, if you don't want to risk losing your job have a look through your employee contract and if you have one an employee handbook, see if it mentions anything directly about bribery/corruption.

It's certainly not worth losing your job and your reputation over.
 
Oct 27, 2017
12,319
10 goddamn k jfc breh

spread that around

invest???

OR

You could blow it all video games/liquer/partying in Spain or some shit

but gotdamn
 

Akira86

Member
Oct 25, 2017
19,594
lmao, he said keep the money but don't contact the man who gives out free money?

shit I might just call out of curiousity. He did just prepay you for at least a month of your time, lol.

You never wanted to get into import\exports?
 

Pekola

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,507
I don't know what the fuck is going on with your life or the kind of men you get involved with.

But first the whole boyfriend situation and now this. It's...a rollercoaster.

I'll just say, be careful.
 
Oct 25, 2017
5,159
China
My head just went sideways thinking of all the things you could be accused off OP, what if this guy is up to no good and pin you at something ilegal and has the "payment" proof that he deposited the money to your account to back it up? Get rid of that money stat legally, that's what i would do.
Yup, I think this is some money laundering scam and that nice old man conversation was to gather as many personal details from the op as he could while sounding interested in the product. No such thing as free money.

Edit: He contacts you again and says he accidentally added another "0" to the transaction. Can you send him the 9k difference to an account he gives you that's not in his name. Boom YOU JUST LAUNDERED MONEY.
 
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pigeon

Member
Oct 25, 2017
5,447
Honestly I think it's kind of heartwarming that you received a $15,000 payoff and your reaction was to post about it publicly on the internet.
 

ArtTeitlebaum

â–˛ Legend â–˛
Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,246
Europe
I once got quite a spectacular cheque from the husband of an arab woman that I had as a patient for a mere afternoon. It was given as a form of 'tip' from him for what he considered a quality treatment in our hospital.
But for a conversation? OP must be a real good talker, I guess. But stranger things have happened in this world.
Enjoy the cash I'd say.
 

CrankyJay

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
11,318
I once got quite a spectacular cheque from the husband of an arab woman that I had as a patient for a mere afternoon. It was given as a form of 'tip' from him for what he considered a quality treatment in our hospital.
But for a conversation? OP must be a real good talker, I guess. But stranger things have happened in this world.
Enjoy the cash I'd say.

How much?
 

Aureon

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
2,819
SEPA transactions can be reversed for up to 13 weeks if that was stolen money.
Doublecheck identity of sender, under no circumstance wire that money to any account except the one that sent it, and wait 13 weeks.

Then you'll be in the clear. Unless that guy wanted to buy a personal relationship with money or something.
 

MrBS

Member
Oct 27, 2017
6,236
Well that set the anti money laundering part of my life into overdrive, OP something is not right here, look after yourself.
 
Oct 25, 2017
5,159
China
http://www.competitionbureau.gc.ca/eic/site/cb-bc.nsf/eng/03074.html#s4_0

"If you or your business is selling products or services online or through newspaper classifieds, you may be targeted by an overpayment scam. In response to your advertisement, you might receive a generous offer from a potential buyer and accept it. You receive payment by cheque or money order, but the amount you receive is more than the agreed price. The buyer may tell you that the overpayment was simply a mistake or they may invent an excuse, such as extra money to cover delivery charges. If you are asked to refund the excess amount by money transfer, be suspicious. The scammer is hoping that you will transfer the refund before you discover that their cheque or money order was counterfeit. You will lose the transferred money as well as the item if you have already sent it."

I'm 100% sure this is a scam.
 

rezn0r

Member
Oct 25, 2017
750
As much as I wanted to think there's nice innocent people out there that just mean well, the more I think about it the more this seems to probably be the deal ^
 

Aselith

Member
Oct 27, 2017
8,376
I've read a few times that an account can be drained without any authorization, using just the account # and routing info that is exchanged to receive money. I read about it a few years ago. Maybe policies have changed, or maybe this would only work in the US. The most common way these unauthorized transfers happen is using online payments to the thief's credit cards using the victims account and routing.

I'm pretty sure I read a thread here once too where a thirsty guy gave his info to shady guys who promised to send money, and then his account was in overdraft from unauthorized transfers. He was Canadian I think. Can't find the thread anymore though.

https://splinternews.com/someone-can-empty-your-bank-account-with-the-informatio-1793857226

The thing with paying your Amex bill with the money is that it's two banks exchanging money. If the account holder for the checking claimed fraud later, they would just put the money back and charge the cardholder. Along with some nice fees to compliment it, of course.

It might make things tight for a bit but it wouldn't be a huge problem for the checking account holder since it's quickly reversible.
 

Notaskwid

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
5,652
Osaka
I need 500 euro to move out of a shit situation I got myself in with my ex girlfriend, PM for details OP, and we can have a riveting talk too. Serious talk :'(