I don't mean children being born to couples without a formal marriage, I think most here (myself included) would agree that is not really an issue in modern times. I'm more concerned about paternal abenteeism without some kind of attachment to the mother and it's impact on women and children. It makes me so sad when I see soon-to-be mothers at work (ob/gyn) with no support except maybe their sister or mother, and it's frustrating that women are the de facto single parents if the parents aren't together after the baby is born. Having two kids of my own, I cannot fathom how a single parent could devote the time to pursue self-improvement, education, or a career when they already have a beyond-full-time obligation. And while adoption is an option, it is also stigmatized and is doubtless a difficult emotional decision for the mother. Sometimes I even feel like a shotgun wedding would in some cases encourage paternal involvement in the raising of their children, though obviously it wouldn't be a guarantee. That's probably a bit extreme, but I feel that something should be done to hold men more accountable for their offspring.
Sorry, just needed to vent I guess. I'm curious how this forum feels about this issue though. I don't see it raised as often as other social issues.
Sorry, just needed to vent I guess. I'm curious how this forum feels about this issue though. I don't see it raised as often as other social issues.