I mean what am I supposed to accomplish? Why is it the responsibility of the people that live through that shit day in day out to accomplish anything?i appreciate your points. but if you set the bar so low that anybody on the spectrum is labelled as a 'racist' you are accomplishing nothing imo. is someone making a white supremacy argument a racist? is someone making a model minority argument a racist? like, what are fucking doing here? are we just going to stop listening and talking to people we disagree with?
It's not that I live under the illusion that I can change people that don't want to show empathy for their others so I can either remain silent and just let it happen over and over and over to me and others or I can call it out in hopes people grow uncomfortable pulling shit like that.
But hey open for suggestions on how to deal with that stuff?
Is it the "grow a ticker skin?" is it "brush it away?" is it "don't make a big deal out of nothing?" is it "take it as a joke?" is it "stop being a whiney sjw?"(Not saying that any of these would be your suggestion but these are things I hear and that you can constantly see as arguments used). People are putting all the burden on dealing with this shit on the people getting marginalized cause it's very important that they can just say whatever they want and everything else isn't their problem while I just have to assume non of them have to live a life where they experience that shit constantly. Death by a thousand cuts or something.
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