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Darth Vapor

Self Requested Ban
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
700
Death Star
I started dating my current gf when I was her boss.

I ended up leaving that job for a handful of reasons but mainly to improve the relationship.
 
Oct 25, 2017
5,846
I'm not poly, but that would change the calculus here immensely and it's not an area I have any experience so I won't comment.

I don't think being poly changes anything you listed. There are higher potential pitfalls with dating people you're around frequently, and dating bosses/people who have some level of control over you is a great way to either get an edge in your job or field or get burned, but probably not going to result in a neutral outcome.

Chances are if you're on this forum you're not regularly in contact with those people, especially not as dating partners.
 

The Namekian

Member
Nov 5, 2017
4,877
New York City
I knew this cute woman who would explain to me in vivid details how she would go about crushing her enemies, see them driven before her, and hear the lamentations of their women...... also a few mentions of petty theft.

As much as I wanted to ask her out I decided not to, and I know that was the right decision.
 

shintoki

Member
Oct 25, 2017
15,112
Anyone who makes an argument about stiffing a waiter their tip to send a message that tipping is wrong.
 

Robin

Restless Insomniac
Member
Oct 25, 2017
3,502
Anyone with more problems than you.

I hate this. Relationships aren't purely transactional. I definitely agree with leaving a relationship if it's toxic, but this seems a bit beyond that.

As for who I wouldn't date, someone who doesn't have the same relationship goals as me. I don't want to be joined at the hip all day every day, but I couldn't date someone who wasn't enthusiastic about actually spending time together, and fully integrating into each others lives.
 

SRG01

Member
Oct 25, 2017
7,015
Habitual cheaters -- not that they'd tell you before hand.

People who are still in love with someone else.
 

Whales

Member
Oct 25, 2017
3,175
lots of people I know dont wanna date people i their uni classes

which is understandable i guess, if something happens you're stuck seeing them everyday in school
 

Pau

Self-Appointed Godmother of Bruce Wayne's Children
Member
Oct 25, 2017
5,846
People who dislike the Robins.