This is interesting. Not saying I disagree or anything its just...hmm. Like I don't mean it in a mob justice sense - like "Hey, this person is scum. Go dox/harass them" etc but more of a PSA style thing?
I know what you mean. But it is exactly that.
Name and shame is, by definition, mob justice. You are relying on people, people who are not judges nor goverment officials, but random people to hurt someone's reputation because they "deserve it", on some level. And it's important to note that shaming people
is harrassment.
And even then, it's a mob. It has no control and is powered by hate and prejudice. It's not going to be proportional, nor fair nor helpful. It's going to dox and harrass and send death threats and beat them up if they can. They are going to call family members. It is not possible to just have a little shaming that does not get out of hand.
And you have to think. Who is going to be create the mob? Bullied victims with no friends or conencted, powerful abusers? Think about public shaming. How many events can you think where it was the victims that came out ahead and how many were covers for abuse? The vast majority of events like this target the weak: Black people, gay people, the poor and transexuals. It is not a coincidence, it's what this stuff is.
I guess my thought is this: Someone is bullying/abusing people. It has been going on for a length of time and I feel like people should know what this person is really like
If they have been abusing people, they should be judged. for they have commited a crime.
This is abrupt, but important. Harrassment and abuse are crimes. They should be judged and investigated like all other crimes and that fact that we, as a society, do not is a disgrace. But the goal should be to change that, not to bypass it and turn it into some personal responsability thing where the victim must take justice by their own hand.
In other words, we are having this conversation because society is failling victims of abuse.
Note: This is a societal thing. This doesn't mean your friend is not shitty. There's a massive difference between "hey I'm going to put this on Twitter" and telling your friends, your local circle or people in a position of authority. And if they look the other way, or dismiss it, it's them who are being shitty. Not you.
because in a classic bully sense, there's a facade or mask they wear for some people. They also say vile things behind people's backs. Personally I think bullies/abusers SHOULD be named and shamed but not to exact any sort of mob justice - because that does make me feel uncomfortable and I say that as a long time victim of abuse - but yeah. A PSA style thing.
You also have to realize that all the stuff you mention can and probably is said to victims, including you. People claim that victims have a mask and that they "say vile things behind people's backs". If you are being bullied, you are already seeing the effects of being "named and shamed".
So one must think. Who does "name and shame" help? Victims of harrassment or the harrassers?
I firmly believe it's not the former. At all.