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How much sex do you have a week or month?

JK-Money

JK-Money

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I remember seeing a topic on this forum maybe a week ago stating sex isnt as important to relationships etc. Generallg speaking its important for my wife and I not to only have sex to feel emotionally connected but also to relieve stress, tension and sometimes angey sex is the best sex. I was curious how my fellow era members do in this part of their life.

Personally the wife and I have sex atleast 4-5 times a week. If we are really busy usually 3-4 but we always try to connected and make it 5. Obviously for pleasure but also the other reasons listed above as well. How about you my fellow members?
 
DrROBschiz

DrROBschiz

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Oct 25, 2017
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oh jeez

we try to fit in time here and there but its feast or famine. Just depends on how busy we are and whether we have spent enough time romancing each other lol

Marriage and Kids keeps you so tied up sometimes but I recommend making the effort!
 
ZoSo006

ZoSo006

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Oct 25, 2017
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About once a week or so until I fully recover from secondary adrenal insufficiency which still kinda has my energy levels all out of wack at times.
 
Arkaign

Arkaign

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Nov 25, 2017
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It used to be important to me, but I'm pretty much done with it now. Wife died last August, and after a couple of blind dates I realized I'd rather be taking my boys to a movie or a park or just hanging out playing games than dealing with trying to get to know someone new with all the risk and aggravation that entails.
 
Klyka

Klyka

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Oct 25, 2017
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My GF and I have not have had sex in about 3 years.
She's been going through some tough times mentally and physically and I've been supporting her during that time.
 

staedtler

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Nabbit

Nabbit

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Oct 25, 2017
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Arkaign said:
It used to be important to me, but I'm pretty much done with it now. Wife died last August, and after a couple of blind dates I realized I'd rather be taking my boys to a movie or a park or just hanging out playing games than dealing with trying to get to know someone new with all the risk and aggravation that entails.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you are a great father and I'm sure your kids appreciate the time with you a ton.
 
The_Inquisitor

The_Inquisitor

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Oct 25, 2017
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Arkaign said:
It used to be important to me, but I'm pretty much done with it now. Wife died last August, and after a couple of blind dates I realized I'd rather be taking my boys to a movie or a park or just hanging out playing games than dealing with trying to get to know someone new with all the risk and aggravation that entails.
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I'm sorry for your loss. If you don't mind a stranger's advice I think you should continue focusing on your kids for a while. I think you simply haven't given yourself enough time to grieve. And that's okay.
 
jph139

jph139

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Oct 25, 2017
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Not currently in a relationship. I get about 1-2 "sessions" a month.

Even when I'm in a relationship though, once or twice a week seems plenty. Good sex takes a lot of time and energy - I'd rather have good sex once a week than okay sex every day, and I don't want to devote like 10 hours a week to fucking. Would rather, like, watch a movie and cuddle and sleep.
 
Nilou

Nilou

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Oct 25, 2017
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I'm unable to orgasm and the only time I have it is when one of my guy friends will visit me if he can use my body. Crappy one sided sex is better then being alone.
 
ObbyDent

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Arkaign said:
It used to be important to me, but I'm pretty much done with it now. Wife died last August, and after a couple of blind dates I realized I'd rather be taking my boys to a movie or a park or just hanging out playing games than dealing with trying to get to know someone new with all the risk and aggravation that entails.
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Damn, dude. I'm sorry for your loss and I commend you for being their for your family after something like that. My mom told me when I was older that she did something similar. Once myself and my sister were out of the house she resumed dating and now shes probably gonna marry the guy. :)

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Yikes there's a lot to say about this image and response and I really am not in the mood.
 
MidweekCoyote

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Mar 23, 2018
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I assume the question only applies to people in relationships of some kind. When I was in one up until 3 months ago, me and the ex would do it about two times per week on average simply because we were able to see each other mostly on weekends.

However, if there was any time where we spent multiple days together, it would pretty much happen every day. We went on a vacation together last year and let's just say that the big Durex pack did not last us the entirety of the 11 days we spent on the Croatian coast.
 
Inugami

Inugami

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Oct 25, 2017
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Varies pretty wildly between 1-2 a day to 1-2 a week. Never came closer to any significant drought.
 
Montresor

Montresor

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Oct 27, 2017
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Zero.

It's actually affecting my mental health. My inability to start any kind of sexual relationship.

Lost a lot of weight recently and it hasn't made a difference. I feel like I look a lot fitter/better than last year and I'm definitely much healthier. But I'm slowly accepting that I have an ugly face / unattractive personality. And slowly accepting that women just aren't attracted to me. It really feels bad... for now. But I feel like I'm close to accepting these shortcomings of mine. Once I accept that I'm not meant to have any success with women I think I'll be way, way happier.

Before I give up I'm continuing with my fitness and I plan to slim down another 10 pounds by mid-November. But I'm kind of done trying to pursue relationships - I've been told No so many times in the past 6 months that I feel there's no point.
 
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Camwi

Camwi

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Oct 27, 2017
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I'm lucky if I get it once a week, thanks to the combination of young kids and a wife with a much lower libido.
 
Gospel

Gospel

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Oct 27, 2017
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Zero



Zero and X are my favorite Megaman characters. Now to answer your question, I have sex nine times a week, yes.
 

noquarter

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Oct 25, 2017
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Since Sept last year: zero times a week. That's just the average though, sometimes it is 0 and sometimes is nil.
 
ElephantShell

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Hard to say because it varies a lot. My girlfriend has health problems that give her bad abdominal pains that make sex really uncomfortable at times. Average probably twice or three times in a week. Sometimes it will go over a week without though if her pain is bad.
 
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