I think having kids is beautiful but OP is right that it should stop being like a predetermined thing that we expect everyone who is happy and successful to do.
This is also a bummer hot take, but probably most people should stop having kids. I used to want to be a father badly but given the way climate change is going I would feel guilty bringing a child into the world. I don't want my kid to have to see the famine, war, and death that's going to eat the planet whole in the next 70 years.
This is also a bummer hot take, but probably most people should stop having kids. I used to want to be a father badly but given the way climate change is going I would feel guilty bringing a child into the world. I don't want my kid to have to see the famine, war, and death that's going to eat the planet whole in the next 70 years.