Then your argument should be "This games armour isn't realistic" not "This games female armour isn't realistic" because the answer to the latter is just pointing out the former.
It's not lore it's game design. These are above all else games, realism need not apply.
Rags giving more defense than actual armour is entirely on point when the argument against a boob chestplate is "It's not realistic".
How are you not seeing the point.
You still didn't reply me why do you think one is a unrealistic sexualized gear for women and the other is a unrealistic non sexualized gear for men.