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LL_Decitrig

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his symptoms sound like he may have been a heavy drinker. after many years of heavy drinking, if you are forced to detox in the hospital, the patient will often completely lose control, hallucinate, become belligerent and have to be sedated, or placed in restraints during treatment. if this is his first rodeo, he will be fine. after a couple of these episodes though, your organs will shut down and you will die. drinking is no joke.

I had acute pancreatitis in my early thirties, half my current age. I woke up with what felt like a bad tummy ache, but it became much worse on the train to work so I made an unscheduled stop and bought coffee. I couldn't finish the coffee as the pain got much worse. I went to a pay phone (this was 1990, mobile phones were expensive and rare) and asked the flower vendor nearby to watch me in case I passed out during the emergency call. An ambulance came and I can't remember much else except wishing the registrar at the hospital didn't have to probe my abdomen quite so hard. I was put on a trolley and wheeled away. My last thoughts were of my wife and children. Pleasant thoughts, consoling, pretty good life, hope they manage without me. I was preparing for death.

I was put on an intravenous drip, no food or drink. Intravenous injections of pethidine were used to fight the pain. I wasn't an alcoholic but had abused alcohol in my twenties.

I slept for most of the first two days, and was allowed to take walks in the grounds for the remainder of my stay. I was very bored and begging to leave by the third day. They discharged me on the fifth day. This is the UK so the ambulance and everything else, including the bed and whatever meals I consumed, were free. I was back at work the next day. The fact that nobody at my office inquired as to my wellbeing was instrumental in my decision to refuse a freelance contract extension. After two months searching I got a new contract, my dream job. But that's a story for another day.
 

Occam

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Oct 25, 2017
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Sorry to be so negative, but if he was ok, wouldn't he be back by now? He obviously had a smartphone with him which he used for posting when he came to the ER, and whatever treatment was used should either have worked by now - or not.
Unless this thread was created to prank the forum and he just left. Which seems out of character. He obviously saw people cared for his well-being, so why should he have done this?
 

Volimar

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Saw the bump and had a bit of hope he was back. I hope he checks in soon.
 

Commedieu

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how many dishes could he possibly have to clean... man. Might just be a tough recovery, whatever it is.
 

Chris.

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Sorry to be so negative, but if he was ok, wouldn't he be back by now? He obviously had a smartphone with him which he used for posting when he came to the ER, and whatever treatment was used should either have worked by now - or not.
Unless this thread was created to prank the forum and he just left. Which seems out of character. He obviously saw people cared for his well-being, so why should he have done this?
He could just have no charge in his phone or something and since he's in America, I wouldn't blame him for trying to ask one of the nurses for a phone charger.. they'd probably charge him money :P

Pancreatitis is a bitch, trust me on that, I've been suffering with pancreatitis since the 7th july (3 weeks before OP posted this thread) and I'm still suffering from it and in pain. I actually just got out of hospital 5 days ago and this is the longest I've been out (and I've been released 5 times), so I'm half expecting to be admitted anytime soon now. It's not quite as simple as 'treatment should have worked by now'.

However I've found something that I think is helping - creon (pancreatin) meds. Basically helps break down my food and makes it easier on my pancreas as it's doing less work, that seems to be flaring it up less.. but I don't wanna jynx it. If OP is eating food in hospital (I never) it's possible his is constantly flaring up and he should be on Creon aswell to help settle his stomach a bit more. I got put on them and this is the longest I've ever been out of hospital (which isn't very long I admit), so either it's a coincidence or it's helping me a bit.
how many dishes could he possibly have to clean... man. Might just be a tough recovery, whatever it is.
Pancreatitis recovery is a BITCH in my experience. Had my first pancreatitis attack nearly 6 1/2 weeks ago and I've admitted to hospital 5 times since then, this is actually the longest I've been out of hospital (5 days), so I'm half expecting to be admitted again anytime now... Though I have a pseudocyst and partial pancreatic necrosis which is causing the continued pain, so my case is somewhat serious.
 
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Chris.

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Infact I've just gone and looked after my above post, he posted this thread on the 24th and his last post was on the 26th. It's very possible his phone ran out of battery and he hasn't been able to get ahold of a charger. 2 days charge with seldom use on a newish phone is pretty doable and 3 weeks in hospital with pancreatitis isn't neccessarily out the ordinary in my experience - my first admission I was in for 2 weeks exactly, though the surgeon wanted to keep me in for even longer but I just wanted home and I have to imagine America would want to keep you in longer to get even more money off you, plus his case might be worse than mine
 

How About No

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Infact I've just gone and looked after my above post, he posted this thread on the 24th and his last post was on the 26th. It's very possible his phone ran out of battery and he hasn't been able to get ahold of a charger. 2 days charge with seldom use on a newish phone is pretty doable and 3 weeks in hospital with pancreatitis isn't neccessarily out the ordinary in my experience - my first admission I was in for 2 weeks exactly, though the surgeon wanted to keep me in for even longer but I just wanted home and I have to imagine America would want to keep you in longer to get even more money off you, plus his case might be worse than mine
I hope this is the case

I also hope he at least TV if so lol
 

Credo

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after many years of heavy drinking, if you are forced to detox in the hospital, the patient will often completely lose control, hallucinate, become belligerent and have to be sedated, or placed in restraints during treatment. if this is his first rodeo, he will be fine. after a couple of these episodes though, your organs will shut down and you will die. drinking is no joke.

Can confirm. My cousin just died at 46 from his kidneys and other organs shutting down due to cirrhosis after 30ish years of drinking, who knows many were "heavy." He went through the stints in rehab two or three times and would be back to drinking within a month or two. Left behind two kids under 10 years old. Don't fuck around with alcohol, people.
 

Chris.

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I hope this is the case

I also hope he at least TV if so lol
Hospitals in the UK have a TV in the wards but not a lot of channels.

It could be different in America but honestly nothing I've seen from what's going on here is very different to what I experienced. If he's still not posted by month 2 or 3 then it's probably time to start worrying, but 3 weeks I'd say is pretty normal for a first admission
 
Oct 27, 2017
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No one knew him IRL or on other sites? Hard not to assume the worst at this point.

He was very active, what he had can be pretty serious. No way he could be fine or still in care and not have access to update, which it seems reasonable to expect given he made this thread in the first place.

Hope I'm wrong of course though.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Infact I've just gone and looked after my above post, he posted this thread on the 24th and his last post was on the 26th. It's very possible his phone ran out of battery and he hasn't been able to get ahold of a charger. 2 days charge with seldom use on a newish phone is pretty doable and 3 weeks in hospital with pancreatitis isn't neccessarily out the ordinary in my experience - my first admission I was in for 2 weeks exactly, though the surgeon wanted to keep me in for even longer but I just wanted home and I have to imagine America would want to keep you in longer to get even more money off you, plus his case might be worse than mine

How much is 3 weeks in the hospital gonna cost......
 

Chris.

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How much is 3 weeks in the hospital gonna cost......
"just" 3 weeks is probably the least of his worries if I'm honest lol

I've spent 33 nights over 5 admissions in hospital since 7th july, still have a scan, operation to get my gallbladder out, potential operation to drain a cyst on my pancreas and knowing my luck I'll end up back in hospital yet again several times before that happens (been out 5 days so far, this is the longest I've been out so I'm due another attack... any day now..). The surgeon I saw said to me "you're basically having pancreatitis hangover which can last months and months".. So yeah.

Sounds like his was caused by alcohol so his case is a bit different from mine (I'm sure NHS works differently too, budgets and all) and maybe more serious (?), but overall pancreatitis is no joke and is a horrible thing.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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Infact I've just gone and looked after my above post, he posted this thread on the 24th and his last post was on the 26th. It's very possible his phone ran out of battery and he hasn't been able to get ahold of a charger. 2 days charge with seldom use on a newish phone is pretty doable and 3 weeks in hospital with pancreatitis isn't neccessarily out the ordinary in my experience - my first admission I was in for 2 weeks exactly, though the surgeon wanted to keep me in for even longer but I just wanted home and I have to imagine America would want to keep you in longer to get even more money off you, plus his case might be worse than mine


ER in the US usually gets you out ASAP. They typically are short on space and like quick turnover. Especially when you don't have insurance on file.

Hope I'm wrong but I think it's probably bad news of one or two varieties.

Also, I think getting/bringing a charger would be a high priority at some point over the last 3 weeks, for someone who spent a good deal of time online.
 

Chris.

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ER in the US usually gets you out ASAP. They typically are short on space and like quick turnover. Especially when you don't have insurance on file.

Hope I'm wrong but I think it's probably bad news of one or two varieties.

Also, I think getting/bringing a charger would be a high priority at some point over the last 3 weeks, for someone who spent a good deal of time online.
It's worth noting his situation was looking better though (he said his WCC was down). I don't think his situation would look better then take a sudden turn to that extreme when you're under hospital care, but I could be wrong. I feel like if it was going to get that serious the doctors would have noticed it before that point and Blame Space would have been able to update us, but I am just an idiot that knows next to nothing about the medical field... so :P

Like I said though, I've got pancreatitis, pseudocyst and partial pancreatic necrosis - if I managed to survive (touch wood) I'm confident Blame Space will.
 

5pectre

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Nov 16, 2017
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wow, it's been a month. Hope the dude pulls through.

But if blamespace was an avid ERA user and he hasn't checked in yet, it doesn't look too good.
 

ObbyDent

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Oct 27, 2017
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his original post is chilling. please be okay man

does literally no one he interacts with online know his real name?
 

entrydenied

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Oct 26, 2017
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I noticed that he has a twitter account. Maybe I'll give him a tweet to see if he sees it or if anyone who knows him in real life sees it.
 

Truant

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Oct 28, 2017
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I'm so thankful I live in a social democracy. I hope everything goes well for you and your wallet, OP.
 

apocat

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Oct 27, 2017
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I hadn't read this thread before, but this is genuinely worrying. I hope he's all right.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Is blame space from the US? I found out last night that an old friend of mine passed away this week. He was 36 and had two little girls. He lived in Guatemala though. I hadn't seen him in about 8 years but we kept in touch once in a while through Facebook. I don't think he ever posted here but you never know.

:(
 

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Is blame space from the US? I found out last night that an old friend of mine passed away this week. He was 36 and had two little girls. He lived in Guatemala though. I hadn't seen him in about 8 years but we kept in touch once in a while through Facebook. I don't think he ever posted here but you never know.

:(
Ohio.

C'mon blame space, show yourself.
 

NaturalHigh

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Oct 27, 2017
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My money is on him being told not to drink and now that he is sober he is out experiencing the world and saying things like "Wow I cant believe I used to post on the internet."
 
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