If it were up to straight people, and many like the people here on Resetera, gays wouldn't have ANY prescence in movies at all.
Because "it's just acting" and "He's the best person for the role" would spew like diarrhea, just like it's happened in this thread.
They talk about meritocracy, but in this magical meritocracy, most roles would go to straight white people. Hmm...
These people don't know shit, can't put themselves in the shoes of LGBT people for shit, but want us to look at the situation from a purely "logical" view. And by logical, I actually mean a heterosexual view that has been the default since forever.
Were it up to this people, we'd still be stuck on the Hayes code and Disney gay coding all the bad guys. But it would be okay, because gays can play straight people and merit trumps EVERYTHING (which anyone who's ever been discriminated against can tell you that's BS).
Straight people want to ignore the history of films, the history of the LGBT community. They want to force feed us this "I don't see color/gender/sexuality" utopia where we supposedly are treated equally. But you have to leave your identity behind in order to do so.
Fuck no. It took me ages to come to terms with myself. No thanks to the media who gleefully vilified everything that was considered "gay". And then society fed on that, and it becomes a feedback loop we can never escape.
It's time to question our biases, people. Maybe the reason you don't is because you're actively benefiting from them, while everyone else is fucked just because your ass cannot concede "well Maybe we SHOULD let the first openly gay Disney film character be played by an actual gay man, because that would be a GOOD thing".
That's all you have to do, the bar couldn't be any goddamn lower. But instead you're too busy splitting hairs and arguing semantics.
This is why people don't reach across the room. Because as soon as we open our mouths, it's suddenly too incovinient for straight people and THEY want to tell US how things should be.
You don't understand anything.
If you did, you wouldn't be trying to inject your perspective on an issue that has nothing to do with you.
If you did, you'd know that this is the time to show solidarity, not scramble to find any and every talking point that helps perpetuate the status quo.
If you did, you wouldn't be saying scatterbrained things like "alienating people isn't gonna help your cause!".
If you did, you wouldn't call "bullshit" on gay people denouncing the systems that keep us down, in an attempt to absolve yourself of feeling bad.
You alienated yourself by pretending YOUR perspective is the valid one, and not the one of actual gay people who have had to live with the effects of an anti-gay society and have had YEARS to hone their perspective in said society.
You think liking Kurt from Glee suddenly makes things better? When you're devoting so much energy to spout nonesense at actual LGBT people that have been gracious enough to share their frustrations and experiences with you? You need to sit down and reevaluate what being "accepting" of gay people actually is.
So much truth in these posts.
If the role is basically a camp act then why not get a campy actor? There seem to be two issues here, some don't believe the first gay main character in a Disney film should fill a campy role at all and therefore this character shouldn't exist and other believe it should go to a gay actor. I can see the second point as valid but don't understand the first.
The question I have, is why
is the role a "camp act" to begin with? Why is that the story they want to tell in the first place? And the most likely answer to that question is, whether they realize it themselves or not, is because that's what the large chunk of gay roles in the media amount to, even now: either characters just thrown in the background and if you blink you'll miss them, or the effeminate, flamboyant, campy stereotype. And because of that, straight people, who largely depend on media representation for what their mental image or a gay person is, when they try to envision one, that stereotype pops up in their heads. Because most straight people, being exposed to that all their lives and that being all they have to go on, even if they fully realize not ALL gay people like that, figure that it must at least be more common or make up the majority of gay people or whatever, because why else would that make up so many of the depictions then? That simply must be what they're like! It must, it must, because it's everywhere!
And
that's why actual gay representation, having actual gay voices involved matters so much. Because yeah, some gay people like that are like that, sure. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! That's a fine way to be! But just like with straight people, just like with heterosexual individuals, we have such tremendous, tremendous diversity in personalities, hobbies, interests, just like with anyone else. But from media, you wouldn't know that. You'd think we ARE different from everyone else, in some way other than just who we love. And that's why gay people need to be involved in stuff like this, to make sure that their voices and perspectives are heard so that those kind of pitfalls can be avoided. Because this is the type of thing that say straight white men don't have to worry about at all. They're the majority. They're the default. How they're depicted in film doesn't affect anything, because they're not underrepresented, they're not the minority, and they know that doesn't mean anything. But with minorities, it's different. This type of thing, whether we like it or not, does affect how people see us. It does affect how people think about us. And that's why representation matters so much.
And of course, it's easy to say that things have gotten better particularly in recent years, with people pointing to particular examples like Moonlight and stuff and that's great to see. Indeed it is. But at the same time, if that's indeed the case, if thing have truly gotten better, if things have truly changed on that front, then
why is it then when Disney goes to cast their first openly gay character in a major role, they apparently are not only NOT casting an actual gay person for that role, but go back back to that tried-and-true stereotype?
Why does that happen? If straight people have TRULY realized that's not the sum and total of all that we are, that we're so much more than that and just as diverse as anyone else, then why, in their first openly gay role of all things, not only not cast an actual gay actor for that role, but go back to a straight person doing a gay stereotype of all things?
Because there's ultimately no way around the fact that to many straight people, who have never talked to so much as one single gay person in their lives or perhaps only just ever have had the one gay friend, that IS all we are to them. That IS what they think of when they see the words "gay" or "homosexual" because they, like everyone else, could only rely on media to fill in the blanks for what a gay person "is" or "isn't" and that is the answer media gave them and so, of course, without actually talking to any gay people themselves, that's the same image they'd regurgitate themselves.
And so what will happen if this film does release like this, with nothing changed? Well, we're right back to where we started. Because, particularly with it being such a big premier role, with it being
THE first openly major role for a gay character in a Disney film, that will only influence more people to see gay people in that exact same light all over again. That that is all we "are." Because after all, if that's not the case, why are their so many roles like that? And not only so many roles, but THE role as well? THE first openly gay role in a Disney film, of all things? They simply MUST be all like that, or if not all them, at least most of them, because why else would that have happened right? That simply must be a thing, it just doesn't make sense otherwise.
But of course that's all gibberish and hogwash because we're so much more than that and just as diverse as anyone else. But whether straight people realize it or not, whether they accept it or not, stuff like this does affect how we're seen and how people treat us. Because regardless of how stupid it is, regardless of how nonsensical it all is, those kind of media representations are how most people form their image of what it means to be gay and of other minorities, not being that likely to encounter such individuals in their personal lives or anything.
And that's why gay people need to be involved in projects like this, to give their input and criticism and feedback if nothing else. To avoid issues like that. Because stuff like this shouldn't be an issue. But that Disney's apparently making this decision can only indicate to me that they haven't done their homework at all on this. Because for their first openly gay character of all things? Not only not casting an actual gay actor, but seemingly going back to the tried-and-true gay stereotype of all things? HOW does that happen to begin with? WHY is that the "role" to begin with? Why would that be what they think of when they think up a gay character? WHY would that be the description of all things, when we're so much more diverse than that? When there's so much more to us that that? Why go back to that and make that the role of all things? And as outlined, I can think of no good reason for that. And regardless, the effects will be the same--it just causes more people to see us THAT way and be surprised and confused and taken off guard when they learn their's more to us than that, every single time. And I'd rather not go through that hullabaloo and just have better representation and decisions made regarding this type of thing, but alas, the more things change I guess... The more things change...