I did it because my wife wanted kids and I love her.
And I'm really glad I did. Having kids looks terrible from the outside, and I'm not going to lie to you, it's a huge adjustment and it's really hard sometimes. You have to willingly put yourself aside for your kids, which can be tough if you're used to living for yourself.
But it's worth it. I can't explain it in a way that will make any sense if you haven't experienced it, but it is. I was having an awful day today, and my one and a half year old climbed up on my bed next to me, flopped over on to me, made a kissing noise and said, "Love you, Da." And all the tough stuff we've been through in the last week was suddenly worth it. From a kissing noise and three words.
It's crazy, but I swear it's true. Kids are awesome.
Ha, pretty much the same for me.
I wanted kids, but never in a particularly powerful urge way. If my wife hadn't wanted kids then I'd probably have gone along with that instead and presumably been happy.
But I'm so glad we had them, I've got two and it's impossible to explain why they're so awesome. It's such a dismal cliche but if you don't have your own you simply can't understand. If you've never taken a tiny baby home from the hospital and been confronted with the reality of having to care for it 24/7 you just can't fathom what that feels like, how it changes you emotionally.
It's tough having kids, you have to give up time and money and sleep but they pay you back in ways you can't imagine before you have them. They get you right in the feels and it's hard to rationalise/quantify how or why it's so rewarding. I found everything is more entertaining with kids because they're so enthusiastic about everything, even dull stuff like a trip to the shops.
They drive you bonkers sometimes and they make you worry and they cost money and you can't necessarily do all the things you used to do whenever you like, but it's somehow all worth it. My life was fun before kids, i enjoyed being single and doing what I wamted. And it's fun now but different, somehow richer and more fulfilling.
To confirm though, if you think kids are disgusting....you're right, they are. But here's the thing though, your own kids aren't. I find other people's children revolting generally, bit mine can be doing the same stuff and I'll be going 'Dawwwww'.