To provide some necessary contrast (and positivity) to the 'What are your red flags during a first date' thread, I figured we could use a thread where we discuss the exact opposite. Because I think it's important to remind ourselves that dating isn't always this judgmental horror show, it can also be rewarding, relaxed and a lot of fun.
Basically, when dating, what are the traits, quirks, habits or opinions that your dating partner could have that would make your heart beat faster? Are there things, big or small, that you absolutely adore in a potential partner? What were the things that had you hooked on your current partner when you first dated? Let's keep this thread positive and inclusive and not all about looks, if you can help it.
List your 'green flags' here! I'll start.
1. A click in communication. Quite obvious, but an important one. Not all conversations are created equal and sometimes you meet someone where it clicks from the first minute and it feels like you have known this person for years. All pretense goes out of the window and you're able to let your guard down and just talk about everything, ranging from casual discussions to deep conversations about rather personal things. To me it's a sign of being on a similar wavelength and it's huge.
