WEED SMOKING - that is a huge red flag for me, I don't want to date a stoner or kiss someone with that smell
BROKEN HOME - If the girl you are talking to hates her mother/father to death, then something is not right.
DOES NOT SLEEP AT NIGHT - unless she has a night job, for me - sleep is crucial - there is no excuse why she should not be getting enough sleep - sleep deprivation = emotional instability
NO JOB - unless she is in college full-time, there is no reason why she should not have income coming her way - hell, even EOF at least
JUMPS INTO SEX ON 1st DATE - unless you want it to happen (terrible idea, btw), there is no reason why this should be happening unless you want a booty-call (bad idea, never ends well)
25 MISSED CALLS - we just met, there is no reason she should be calling you THAT much
KIDS - yep, unless you want them - run for the hills - a lot of guys claim they can separate the two - IMPOSSIBLE - her kids will always be part of her life, and it will be yours as well - if you want...
EX - constantly cries about it - the more she talks about = the more you will find yourself in a re-bound situation
NO GOALS - no career, no goals set in life, no children, family, goals - if she doesn't have them - you are wasting your time - may be related to AGE
ATTN: 32 years of experience has taught me this - you have been warned