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Dali

Member
Oct 27, 2017
6,184
Timely thread - once again its like ERA is reading my mind.

I'm sitting here after demolishing a large pizza: 37 years old, weigh around 90kg (198lb), do a fair bit of walking and reasonably active - sitting here feeling awful that i havent exercised for the last month really and been progressively eating worse and worse.

I have in my garage mostly 2nd hand stuff because i hate gyms and have done the 'going to classes' which i got bored in.

1x eliptical
1x stationary bike
1x rowing machine
1x aqua punching bag
1x barbell/weights set + bench
+ assorted kettle bells and weights

For some totally bizarro reason i do not want to work out...think i've got complacent but my belly is getting larger and larger each day.
Thing is I KNOW THAT I NEED TO - but just cant do it!

For history - i used to run a crapton, marathons etc but damaged my knee and for the last 2/3 years have been on a downward slope because i'm too afraid to injure myself again.

I need to take a photo of myself and fat-shame myself into getting into that garage once a day even for 30min...weights or cardio??

You sound exactly like me before things got tooooo bad. I'm 5'11 and had a body similar to that of a wide receiver or safety. I was slim but my weight would say otherwise because I was tightly packed muscle (apparently 5'11 185 is overweight). Anyway, I used to run quite a lot and on top of that had a job that kept me physically active. Well now I've got neither. My days consisted of going to work, going home, drinking, eating poorly, then going to sleep. It took some years of doing this before it actually took its toll, but before I got to where I am now, I started seeing the warning signs like you, but just didn't care for whatever reason. I think I thought I was special and my body would snap back if I just straightened out. It likely would have too if I'd have corrected course then. Dont let yourself get too far gone is all I'm saying.
 

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You sound exactly like me before things got tooooo bad. I'm 5'11 and had a body similar to that of a wide receiver or safety. I was slim but my weight would say otherwise because I was tightly packed muscle (apparently 5'11 185 is overweight). Anyway, I used to run quite a lot and on top of that had a job that kept me physically active. Well now I've got neither. My days consisted of going to work, going home, drinking, eating poorly, then going to sleep. It took some years of doing this before it actually took its toll, but before I got to where I am now, I started seeing the warning signs like you, but just didn't care for whatever reason. I think I thought I was special and my body would snap back if I just straightened out. It likely would have too if I'd have corrected course then. Dont let yourself get too far gone is all I'm saying.

Yeah agreed - i'm actually browsing sites right now for 'get back into it' routines but dont know where to start. Thats whats so messed up - i know i need to do it but can't make that first step...

What did you do to motivate yourself if i might ask?
 

ZackieChan

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
8,056
Seeing Cavill the GOAT in M:I Fallout makes me wanna hit chest and shoulders hard.
Those videos of him working out for Superman are depressing, though.
I have a playlist of superheroes working out from YouTube that I watch on the elliptical, because I hate cardio.
 

Dali

Member
Oct 27, 2017
6,184
Yeah agreed - i'm actually browsing sites right now for 'get back into it' routines but dont know where to start. Thats whats so messed up - i know i need to do it but can't make that first step...

What did you do to motivate yourself if i might ask?
Lol, vanity. I hate having this little belly poking out. I've had a toned, flat, muscular, abdominal area for my entire life now I've got this little mole hill poking out beyond my waistline. I dont tuck my shirts in anymore because of it. I wear a hoodie to work in 100 degree weather (I work inside an office but it's still weird) because its loose and hides the pudge. I can't wear shirts that fit me fairly snugly anymore. I used to be fairly flexible and able to put my forehead on my knees, now I have to undo my belt to put on my shoes. Had to buy a bunch of new clothes for being fat which sucks. My thighs are bigger so jeans are tighter up top. Mostly vanity... but I guess some of it is just feeling pathetic and disgusted with the difference between how I looked and felt and my physical abilities that existed for most of my life in comparison to now. I know I'm going to get old and will have physical limitations pop up as result of old age, but being handicapped because of obesity is garbage I'm not trying to fall victim to.
 

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Lol, vanity. I hate having this little belly poking out. I've had a toned, flat, muscular, abdominal area for my entire life now I've got this little mole hill poking out beyond my waistline. I dont tuck my shirts in anymore because of it. I wear a hoodie to work in 100 degree weather (I work inside an office but it's still weird) because its loose and hides the pudge. I can't wear shirts that fit me fairly snugly anymore. I used to be fairly flexible and able to put my forehead on my knees, now I have to undo my belt to put on my shoes. Had to buy a bunch of new clothes for being fat which sucks. My thighs are bigger so jeans are tighter up top. Mostly vanity... but I guess some of it is just feeling pathetic and disgusted with the difference between how I looked and felt and my physical abilities that existed for most of my life in comparison to now. I know I'm going to get old and will have physical limitations pop up as result of old age, but being handicapped because of obesity is garbage I'm not trying to fall victim to.

SOLD!
 

SageShinigami

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Oct 27, 2017
30,474
I just started working out at home at the start of June. Nothing major since I'm super out of shape, but I'm working stuff in gradually. Just hit 200 squats at the start of July, now I'm adding in push ups and cardio.

What keeps me going is I'm in garbage shape and I'm still single. That could probably still be the case even if I were in super shape since I'm picky, but meh. I just keep thinking about how I got turned down by the last girl I asked out and wondering if it was just because of my weight 'cause we otherwise seemed to have great chemistry. So it's gym time till I burn it all off.

PLUS. I'm 30. The time to get in shape was my 20s but 30s is the next best thing so screw it.
 

FreeMufasa

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Oct 31, 2017
1,375
It's 6:00PM and I just got home. Woke up at 5:45AM to get ready for work. My legs are so sore from work and I'm exhausted mentally and physically. I know I need to go to the gym but I just have no energy to do so.

What gets you to the gym? What keeps you motivated for going every time you're supposed to? How do you keep yourself in check?

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zoukka

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Oct 28, 2017
2,361
I wonder it too myself right now, being at gym in scorching heat wave and a little hungover...
 

The Grizz

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Oct 27, 2017
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Being a better father to my kids is what pushes me. Knowing that I want to be an active participant in my children's lives and be able to keep up with them is what pushes me to be better.
 

Thatonedice1

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Oct 27, 2017
4,112
Working on that also.
I'm the heaviest I've ever been right now at 285. Gonna try to start going to the gym again today. I use to go all the time but only because of the girl I liked. Trying to go for me is tiring just thinking about it.
 
Oct 25, 2017
8,257
The Cyclone State
Am I alone in that I hate going to the gym? I was going 3x per week for a year. Lifting weights, running, etc. I got stronger and more fit, but I hated going every single time. I just kept at it thinking I would eventually start to like it, but it just never happened. I eventually just stopped going. I just can't find the motivation to keep doing something I hate doing.
I don't hate it when I'm there, I just sometimes lack the motivation to go after work. I switched it up and added some yoga classes in and that's helped a lot. I enjoy going to yoga, so I end up doing it once or twice a week.

My issue is that all lifting programs are designed for like 3+ days a week. I do yoga one day and cardio another so I really only have/want two lift days per week and can't really find a good routine to do each week. Someone needs to tell me what to do.