Daughter sounds normal to me. Teenagers go through puberty. They're going to engage in some level of sexual activity, as long as she stays safe there is no reason why it can't be a great, healthy experience for her.
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Found sexual memes from my daughter’s phone
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Just tell her to make sure he wraps it up, 'cos if she gets pregnant you're selling the child on eBay and nailing the boyfriend to the nearest tree by his dick.
Dude, she's 17. This happens to almost anyone who's 17. Don't worry, just make sure she knows she has you as an ally and is informed about what to do and what not to do.
And unlink the phone hahaha.
And unlink the phone hahaha.
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Take away her phone and replace it with a pager.
Seriously, I think it's time to stop snooping.
Seriously, I think it's time to stop snooping.
Ask yourself if your reaction would be the same if it was your 17-year old son instead, then proceed reflecting on the issue from there. Yes, you should definitely talk to your daughter about the real dangers men expose women to within society, but don't put the blame and responsibility on her.
Yup.
Also, does this mean she can see what's on your phone too if they're linked?
When I was 14, most of my classmates and buddies were already into sex, alcohol, smoking, a few even into drugs. Nowadays I see people the age of 10-11 sharing and talking IRL about memes, even racist, sexual or offensive ones. Not to mention the suicidal memes. For one I can tell you that not everything you save, you share, you tag your friends in, etc. is meant to be an accurate representation of anything, more often than not it's in-jokes, exaggerations, or downright fabrications for some quick laughs. Also she's 17, I'd be more surprised if she had nothing sex-related in her talks, memes, pictures. That'd honestly be more suspicious, as if she was intentionally hiding that stuff.
Just stress out the importance of wearing a condom and practicing safe sex. Stuff like this is inevitable with teenagers.
This is pretty much perfect advise. Give her advise if needed and encourage her to use protection. Be there for her.
And unlink your phones. Seriously! This will drive you insane in the next few years.
Ask them how they met and if the user could share tips for talking to people in real life.
OP - if I was in your situation, I'd hope my relationship with my 17 year old daughter would be good enough that I would have already talked about all that shit with her years ago. I'd also be sure as shit hoping that my daughter doesn't find out I snooped on her phone cause I don't want her sarcastically referring to me as her parole officer at dinner that night thus forcing me to explain to my pissed wife why my daughter, who I had a good relationship with, is now wearing her fitbit on her ankle and making loud ass beeping sounds when she walks out of the house.
Mention the words "Star Wars". Within an hour, they'll just be arguing about The Last Jedi and the relationship will be over.
I don't have kids but I imagine an awkward "use protection" talk + trust and love should be fine, OP. She's 17. It happens. Unlink the phone.
Quit.
Quit.
17 huh? She's probably already sex, FYI. Just tell her to be safe about it, no means no, and come to you if anything you don't like ever happened to her.
This is all that needs to be said.
OP She's less than a year away from an adult in every sense of the word. Leave her alone to her privacy. I was expecting the age of the daughter to be like 12 or 13 from the title of the thread, but 17? I lost my virginity at 14. Don't worry about it.
Nailed it.
Had my mom pick me up from a party (that I had planned on staying over at) because I was too drunk to drive and hardcore drugs I didn't want to be around were coming out.
If I was 3 shots drunker an hour later like the moron I was back in the day maybe I get a fucking heroin addiction who knows.
Dude not sure if you're reading all these posts, but if you want her to be able to come to you if she's actually in trouble then BDS's post is the only one you need:
No questions asked is a huge deal. For the sake of argument just imagine she's gone to a party in a year or two and had too much to drink or even tries drugs or something and freaks out - do you want her to be scared of calling you because you'll flip out and relying on whoever is at the party to take care of her, or do you want her to know you'll pick her up and make sure she's safe and trust that a lesson will be learned with the hangover without her getting in trouble with you on top of it all? Because being cool about this is how you win that trust in future.
> I trust her completely
>our phones are linked somehow
lmfao. And I expected some crazy age like 13.
>our phones are linked somehow
lmfao. And I expected some crazy age like 13.
I'd like to at least meet the dude my daughter is dating. I dunno, I was brought up differently, though. I didn't hide stuff like this from my parents.
Well if you want to feel old just remember we probably have members on here and younger than your daughter. But really, as someone who's still relatively young, unlink your phones, and just be supportive of her space and safe sex.
do both.
is this a bait question or some shit? you don't want your son getting a girl pregnant or getting STDs of course every parent should care the same O.o if they don't they are the problem.
Bingo.
Also, unlink your phones.
And maybe remind her not to sext, it's a really bad idea at that age.
Bingo! This is all the advice you need OP. Trust your daughter to do the right thing.
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