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Deleted member 1258

User Requested Account Closure
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
2,914
Racism, homophobia, white supremacy, projection; This DM has it all. I'm someone who has gotten mad at losing games before, but does this post put some perspective on that kind of mentality. I hope I never stoop this low because this is just depressing thinking that there are people who believe behaving like this is acceptable.

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Yes, I know it was a mistake to engage with this person in the first place, but it was interesting to see where it went. This person is most likely a child who has already decided to spend the rest of their life being a shitty person. I'm just glad that the first salty DM I've ever gotten in like 4 years of playing fighters online had so much to unravel.

As for how it ended, I just made a shitty comeback ("The only land you own is a basement") and blocked him. I just know that me having the last word is bound to really upset someone like this.
 
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Quinton

Specialist at TheGamer / Reviewer at RPG Site
Verified
Oct 25, 2017
17,283
Midgar, With Love
This kind of stuff really makes loving humanity enough to study anthropology... difficult.

There are so many assholes.
I'm sorry you had to deal with this one.
 

DaciaJC

Banned
Oct 29, 2017
6,685
I always just answer "lol" and then ignore them. No sense in wasting time arguing with those sorts of morons.
 

Fahzzy

Self-Requested Ban
Banned
Jan 21, 2018
1,079
I've never even heard of wetback as an insult. I must live under a rock.
 

smash_robot

Member
Oct 27, 2017
994
I got a DM after beating an invader in Demons Souls once. It was to a polite apology for invading and it was only because he just really wanted the item you get when you win. I was amazed.
 

Nights

Member
Oct 27, 2017
866
You should at least be fair. He probably doesn't even own the basement he's in. :^)
 

DocSeuss

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,784
I thought your comeback was funny, but obviously the best response would be to type "nothing personnell, kid"
 

cnorwood

Banned
Oct 28, 2017
3,345
I love getting salty DMs win or lose they make me smile, although I never get why they send messages if they win. They are mad that you beat them, rub salt in the wound. Next time respond like "well if you put in less time messaging and more time playing the game maybe you wouldn't have lost."
 

Bakercat

Member
Oct 27, 2017
10,154
'merica
Don't ever give in to any insults. Calling him a douche got what he wanted. You started off good though op. I just type lol or okay and ignore them when I get bored. I don't waste energy on scum


There's your problem lol. I've never gotten so much more rage than a Naruto or DBZ game. Guess they flock assholes together more.
 

Lant_War

Classic Anus Game
The Fallen
Jul 14, 2018
23,580
Report him, he'll probably get a communication ban.

I really don't get why people do this at all, it just makes them look pathetic.
 

Finalpotion

Member
Jun 24, 2018
107
Want to know the secret to making people like this stop?

Don't reply to them and don't make huge issues about it, or just block them and you won't ever have to worry about it.

Years ago I used to be a massive troll, and I stopped due to boredom, and honestly just becoming more mature. The thing that we hated the most was being ignored, no matter the situation. If you don't make a problem out of it, there's nothing to fuel it and eventually we go away.

Of course people still find it a large issue, but due to people going out of their way to shame and blame only makes a trolls fire burn even stronger.

I'm not downplaying your feelings on the subject, I'm just letting people know from my POV, as previously being a massive troll how we think!
 

Deleted member 12186

User requested account closure
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
1,467
Don't forget "having Saiyan in their username". :)

Seriously now, I assume you reported him as well. You even have photo evidence of his behaviour, hopefully he can be permabanned and thus prevented from harassing any others.

The DMs are negatively affecting me because I misread your name as wetback zero

I also disabled my messages because the negatives far outweigh the positives
 

Strings

Member
Oct 27, 2017
31,419
I'm super lucky to have only had surprisingly positive exchanges over PSN. I still remember the first one I received, back in October 2011 during launch Dark Souls, where I spent a good 30 minutes fighting the same person in Darkroot Garden, only to have them message me: ~"Haha, good matches. I have the automatic invade ring on, so sorry about that. I'll leave a summon sign at the boss just in case you need it."

Basically set the tenor for how I try to interact with folks over multiplayer since then.

I did have to unfortunately disable random messages about a year ago to stop the deluge of spam bots though :(
 

Huey

Member
Oct 27, 2017
13,201
There should be a twitter account to just highlight these kind of assholes, not unlike racism watchdog.
 

Cokie Bear

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
4,944
I love salty rage messages. I get so much joy from winding them up even further. I'll never send a salty or angry message but will always respond for the fun of it.

Like in Rocket League for example, I'm currently at Gold III in 1v1 which is an incredibly average rank, and I've found that when people start trash talking or sarcastically spamming "Nice Shot", "What a save" etc, responding with "Who trash talks at such a low rank lol" or "Well done for scoring in such a low ranked game lol" usually puts them on tilt pretty quick. Usually a "calm down lol" is the best response to an actual angry message. The replies Ive has in response to that vary but in more than ok occasion it's genuinely led to them apologising for whatever it was they said.

I never say lol in any other situation other than to respond to dickheads.
 

Rudiano

Banned
Nov 7, 2017
856
Could have at least blurred out the dudes name, now people will go on a witch hunt and abuse the guy...Im not defending the guy either
 

Phil32

Member
Oct 28, 2017
4,568
I wouldn't have engaged. Just eggs them on and encourages more hateful behavior.

Then again, you're not me (and you wouldn't to be me anyway. Believe me! ha).
 

Deleted member 18021

User requested account closure
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Oct 27, 2017
4,000
I was kind of hoping this would be the "Rocks Fall, Everybody Dies" type of salty DM when I opened the thread, lol.

That's an amazing username, though.
 
Oct 25, 2017
3,689
I think the saltiest message I can remember sending is "Why are you the way you are?"

Sent it to people who either just continuously kill me in GTA Online for no real reason or rage and leave Overwatch matches early lmao
 

Doskoi Panda

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 27, 2017
14,969
The worst DM I ever got was during the Halo: Reach beta. Some kid over voice called me a fucking retard because I abused the Elite's (at the time) OP roll ability to kill like thirteen dudes with one gravity hammer, no trouble. I told him via text that I had a lot of fun doing it, but that it's a beta and I'd be letting Bungie know the shit was OP because that's what betas are for. He apologized and we've been on each other's friend lists ever since.

Hardly the worst game interaction I've ever had, though. That goes to ARMA. I've actually never been called the n word playing any other game. ARMA though, whew. I once destroyed an Epoch base that belonged to a group of racists who'd hound me every time I'd see 'em at the Gun Stores - several hours worth of examples. I played ARMA for many, many, many hours, though. I'd probably run into the same playing Call of Duty if I played any given entry for 2000 hours instead of just 50.
 

Wololo

Attempted to circumvent ban with alt account
Banned
Nov 20, 2017
1,564
Why not just block the person and move on?