Im alive. The job I got is kinda heavy but I should be able to handle it. My poor back lifting 70 pounds for 8 hours is rough tho
oh we already been knewOh no. Everyone will see us for the thirsty hoes we are. I'm not ready for that kind of responsibility.
... I was never a mod what
I was randomly modded on the discord, but I've never been a mod here or on the precursor place.
Hey, LGBTQera! I've had a question bugging me for a while, and this OT being in the spotlight reminded me to actually get around to asking it. When someone says something like "as a queer black man," or "as a queer lesbian," what does "queer" mean in this context? I've been trying to figure it out through context clues, but I'm getting nowhere. Does it mean gender nonconforming?
Hey, LGBTQera! I've had a question bugging me for a while, and this OT being in the spotlight reminded me to actually get around to asking it. When someone says something like "as a queer black man," or "as a queer lesbian," what does "queer" mean in this context? I've been trying to figure it out through context clues, but I'm getting nowhere. Does it mean gender nonconforming?
Your wish is my command.Congratulations! Y'all are the next Community Spotlight! I wish I could find that gif of the woman in the green dress dancing.
It might be? But it's not like people stop being aquaintances just because they're not dating anymore.
Literally told him "thank you for taking me out on a date, the conversation we had helped me a lot. Have a great day."
And he starts telling me how rude I am and how weird I am for leaving him. And I'm just like...it was only one date and we mutually agreed to leave it at that. Fam, chill.
It might be? But it's not like people stop being aquaintances just because they're not dating anymore.
Literally told him "thank you for taking me out on a date, the conversation we had helped me a lot. Have a great day."
And he starts telling me how rude I am and how weird I am for leaving him. And I'm just like...it was only one date and we mutually agreed to leave it at that. Fam, chill.
It changes from person to person but it's usually either a re-appropriation of a slur originally targeted at us to hurt us or an additional indicator that, aside for being part of the LGTB+ community, you don't adhere to heteronormativity rules or "respectability politics".
For example, even though in my case I don't use it because it has no direct equivalent in my mother tongue (Spanish), I would be a queer gay man since my appearance sometimes includes makeup of any kind, and I'm not afraid to keep on using accessories and clothing through my 30s that straight people would have left behind by 25 such as facial piercings, crazy colored hair and beard, or accessories typically considered feminine like hand fans.
That helps clear things up. Thanks, guys!I always interpret it to mean that person is one of the letters in the lgbtqia+, which may very well be gender non-conforming or lesbian. I don't know what every single letter is though. I am not sure if asexual people consider themselves queer.
I think so yes.Is it normal to feel like a fraud after coming out if you've never acted on certain aspects of your sexuality, even though you're certain of how you feel and what you find attractive?
Is it normal to feel like a fraud after coming out if you've never acted on certain aspects of your sexuality, even though you're certain of how you feel and what you find attractive?
no oxford commas though it seemsWelcome, The Straights, to our humble corner. We have drinks, hygiene tips and unrepentant sodomy.
*pat pat*
I don't understand why everyone's so mean to me today. I stay in my lane and I am generally friendly. I literally don't deserve any of this.
*single tear*
I'm 28, gay, and a virgin. I'm not any less gay for not having acted out the big bang or activated Mystical Space Typhoon on someone's play area since coming out at 16. You're fine. You're also fine if your feelings change down the line, too, whether you go from bi to gay, gay to bi, x to y, etc. You know yourself best. Fuck everyone else.Is it normal to feel like a fraud after coming out if you've never acted on certain aspects of your sexuality, even though you're certain of how you feel and what you find attractive?
I'm sorry <3
I don't understand why everyone's so mean to me today. I stay in my lane and I am generally friendly. I literally don't deserve any of this.
*single tear*
Is it normal to feel like a fraud after coming out if you've never acted on certain aspects of your sexuality, even though you're certain of how you feel and what you find attractive?
Sure. It's just important to keep in mind that you aren't a fraud no matter your experiences.
I'm 28, gay, and a virgin. I'm not any less gay for not having acted out the big bang or activated Mystical Space Typhoon on someone's play area since coming out at 16. You're fine. You're also fine if your feelings change down the line, too, whether you go from bi to gay, gay to bi, x to y, etc. You know yourself best. Fuck everyone else.
It's natural to have the feeling, but that doesn't make it true. You don't have to justify your sexual orientation to anyone, full stop.
- Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) - Male
- Your sexual orientation? - Straight
- Where Are You From? - West Coast
- Where Do You Live? - Washington State
- How Old Are you? - 33, 34 this xmas
- Favorite Type of Music? - whatever sounds good
- Profession or Career interest? - n/a
- Favorite video game(s)? - Persona 4
- What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? - dunking on scrubs
Short version: Queer
Long Version: I guess technically pansexual but I just say bi since your average person don't really know what pan means. So bisexual for sexual orientation, but i'm homoromantic; I can really only feel deep mushy romantic stuff with other girls. Currently in a committed relationship with a gorgeous lovely woman, with some poly type aspects to it.
because the combat is the best in the series next to Berseria, but everything else is awful