I'm not ugly, just overweight. Even so, plenty of people have found me attractive. This took years to finally accept - probably not until I was like 23-24 years old did I fully internalize that I wasn't actually ugly.
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You ugly?
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Whether or not I think I am ugly, the women I've dated disagree and they are probably better judges than I am.
You're not ugly, either, OP. You just let someone convince you that you are.
You're not ugly, either, OP. You just let someone convince you that you are.
There are some aspects about my appearance I'd change in a heartbeat if I could, but I don't think I'm ugly, no.
I don't think most people are actually ugly, though. Well, on the outside at least lol.
Your friends are right, my man.
I don't think most people are actually ugly, though. Well, on the outside at least lol.
And since we're throwing photos out there, ah, what the hell
Your friends are right, my man.
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In terms of how I personally feel I genuinely think I'm the ugliest person around. But I know that's a kind of narcissistic self-obsession and even discussed it in therapy. In reality I'm just another human being. I believe most people would probably say I'm below-average or average lookswise. Nowadays I try to simply not think about my appearance at all. Doesn't always work but I'm getting better at it.
When my hair is freshly cut, the fit is right, the skin is clear, the facial hair game is strong and the Paroxetine is keeping a smile on my face, I'd call myself a solid 6. Most days, I'd say I'm a 4 or 5.
I have some strong self-esteem issues to the point where I hate looking in the mirror so that's not fun to live with but I've never really had trouble attracting a romantic partner which makes me think that something has been working. I'm also tall (6' 2") which for some stupid reason is considered an asset so there's that. Ultimately though, I'd say I'm one of the uggs.
I have some strong self-esteem issues to the point where I hate looking in the mirror so that's not fun to live with but I've never really had trouble attracting a romantic partner which makes me think that something has been working. I'm also tall (6' 2") which for some stupid reason is considered an asset so there's that. Ultimately though, I'd say I'm one of the uggs.
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This thing can be objective you know, dont you have friends/ family members/ s.o./ coworkers that would tell you whether ur ugly or not?
If you think ur ugly and the only point of reference is ur opinion thats maybe thats u wanting to inflict self pity or drama on yourself (which is not healthy)
As for me, im somewhat in shape but ive been told a few times by friends and wife that am ugly and it doesnt bother me one bit
This thing can be objective you know, dont you have friends/ family members/ s.o./ coworkers that would tell you whether ur ugly or not?
If you think ur ugly and the only point of reference is ur opinion thats maybe thats u wanting to inflict self pity or drama on yourself (which is not healthy)
As for me, im somewhat in shape but ive been told a few times by friends and wife that am ugly and it doesnt bother me one bit
I was an ugly teenager , briefly attractive as a young adult, and now I'm ugly again. Luckily met my wife in the attractive time window
I used to think I was ugly, but I have no issue pulling really hot girls. There is a large chance I probably have a mild/moderate case of body dysmorphia due to harassment when I was a chubby kid, but I have enough women tell me that I'm desirable to know that it's something wrong with me mentally vs what they see.
I was told by a teacher that "you're no Brad Pitt but you have a cute smart guy look going for you."
I was like... oh that's rad... I'll take it. My girlfriend at the time was insulted though.
Since then I went bald, gained a bunch of weight, lost a bunch of weight, and gained a ton of muscle. I went from "smart guy" to "Josh Gad" to "Kurt Angle".
I was like... oh that's rad... I'll take it. My girlfriend at the time was insulted though.
Since then I went bald, gained a bunch of weight, lost a bunch of weight, and gained a ton of muscle. I went from "smart guy" to "Josh Gad" to "Kurt Angle".
I remember you in the realpic threads, those were fun times. I know me saying that won't change your own self-image, but you're definitely not ugly by whatever standards, you're very cute!
Yep, 90% of it is mainly about maintaining shape, sleeping well, and dressing well.
I don't get no hoes like that so yeah, I'm ugly. My momma the only person who says I'm handsome. Still pretty. Ugly Pretty.
I'd say I'm a 7/10 just because I'm tall. If I were short, I'd be straight up 3/10 or some shit.
Selfies distorts your face because of the small focal length on phone cameras and you might find yourself weird on other pictures because you are used to seeing yourself mirrored.
Thank you.
You really aren't as subpar as you claim yourself to be.
I don't agree with this at all. In the end personality do actually matter, I'm 5'10 and the woman I'm dating right now is 6 feet tall. On our first date, she did shoot me down and just wanted to be friends although length was never brought up, I knew that was the reason (this came up later) and frankly didn't care about it. People have preferences, sure.
Anyway, couple of days after our first date she wanted to see me again, as friends, and soon after that "friendly second date", she texted me that she was attracted to me and wanted to resume dating. We still date and things are very good. But yeah she liked me from start and told me later that the only reason she said no to anything romantic was because of my height, but she set that aside cause she really liked me and here we are now doing all good. So just keep being positive and never assume anything (although I myself did that for a short second), things can still go your way. Keeping your chin up is more valuable and visible than any other height.
I definitely think I'm not ugly - just decidedly average, if not slightly above it. This assessment is based on years of of receiving infrequent reactions indicating attraction, coupled with observing how frequent the reactions other more attractive people receive.
I got no qualms with it though. There's nothing upsetting to me about recognizing where I stand in terms of attractiveness. As they say - it is what it is 🤷🏾♂️
I got no qualms with it though. There's nothing upsetting to me about recognizing where I stand in terms of attractiveness. As they say - it is what it is 🤷🏾♂️
Pretty girls seem to be most attracted to really average looking dickbags. I've had some absolutely stunning girlfriends. So that either makes me extremely average looking, like the most plain looking fucker out there, or just a massive, massive arsehole. Or probably both.
Girls like me a lot so I guess i am pretty good looking.
Or maybe I just hang out too much in bars and I end up with drunk people.
Or maybe I just hang out too much in bars and I end up with drunk people.