Really thought, more women creatives would really make things less worse.
At least games should start being more influenced by Shojo, Josei and otome stuff as a start.
This and all the previous talk regarding the Xenoblade games has made me start to wonder about how otome VNs handle polyamorous relationships. I know that presumably such a topic falls outside of the main scope of this thread, but I would imagine they're less sexist yet not completely un-problematic.
It's funny Fate already got mentioned because I found that out the hard way with the original Fate Stay Night visual novel. Read it because it got recommended and then got to the... Eroge bit.
Fate as an overarching property still contains a lot of sexualization in terms of character designs and other narrative-related elements, but at least it has moved away rather decisively from its origins. To the extent it's easier, commercially speaking, to find and purchase the non-R18 versions of the VN these days.