I probably won't have the best words to say what I want to say about this matter, so I'll do the best I can. *GULPS & SIGH* Here we go!
As a lady, I highly look up to Bayonetta with all of her high levels of confidence, and self esteem. I love the way she owns who she is/herself. The way she flaunts not just her looks, but her personality is completely stellar to me in that she's become a role model to me in how I can/should/am/will embrace myself, and try to carry myself out the way she does, or at least similarly to her. I have a very... sisterly? bond with Bayonetta personally, it's like I see her in the lens of a older sister/bigger sister for me while simultaneously seeing her as a best/close/kindred friend. Whenever I play Bayonetta games, I always say to myself "Ladies day/night only! Where we do girly things and kick butt!". I love that she has dark hair like me and she wears glasses like me too! Also the double edge sword of irony here is that she is mostly covered up (well in her default outfit, and similar outfits to her default), even though all her outfits (that are funnily enough, her own hair somehow made into her own clothing) are skin tight/vacuumed sealed onto her skin. Meanwhile I feel a kind of connection to Bayonetta, it was very suffocating to see all the male gazey things going on in her games with the camera angles (when she would do those obscene poses/attack poses that the camera blatantly pans over to focus on such times, and among other things), and certain cut scenes (like the one where she and Luka were in the helicopter there was a rain drop going into her boob window cleavage for Luka to ogle who is suppose to mirror/reflect the male audience, and among other things), and of course outfitting her in questionable fetish costumes. I've grown to get use to what she does and what her powers do that take into factor of what she does, so I'm just at a weird acceptance of it since it really just adds up to who she is, however I wish the male gaze non sense would stop. I just wish that Bayonetta was moreorless the "one and done" sexual/sexualized female character, and that all other female characters from all other video games can stop with the sexualization/objectification/waifuization.
I also think it's worth noting that there was this particular cut scene where she mentions she's not interested in having children but she is rather into "the process of making children". The quote goes as: "Come now Cheshire. Look at me. Do I look like I have any interest in children? Now making them... Well, that's another story."... It would be really nice and cool to see her bed with characters in her game. I mean, back when I heard about Bayonetta and her sexuality, I was really hoping she would actually be in bed with characters, but it turns out she's having this endless waltz with herself as her sexuality, which I mean is okay and all, but I was just wishing for that to happen. I say this because I'm tired of the double standards/hypocrisy that characters like old school Kratos from od of War, and Geralt from Witcher can do these exact things in their games, but Bayonetta cannot??? All so she can be shown available for explicitly the male audience for the sake of waifuism/waifu baiting??? That's just bull to me. This would have been a tactful way of showcasing Bayonetta of who she is in her own game as part of her sexuality owning, but nope.