Would Vivienne from Inquisition be a case of this? I remember thinking she was a great character, but a lot of people seems to dislike her. And she was definitely not the type to worship the player because reasons.
I agree the hate on Vivienne is overblown, but that shouldn't discount the valid arguments against her. I think she's a good character but not a good person. She comes from a place of considerable privilege, and her viewpoint is basically "My experience in the mage circle was just fine, what are you complaining about?" I basically put her on the exact opposite of Anders, whom I regard in a similar fashion. He's willing to destroy whatever it takes for the sake of the mages, not really caring who gets caught in the crossfire. Meanwhile Vivienne would prefer if nothing changes for the sake of her own comfort, regardless of the suffering inflicted on other mages.
However, more on topic, Vivienne's wardrobe is enviable. She shows skin, but there's nothing objectifying about it. Plus, other characters' various outfits tend to radiate an air of "well, I didn't pick this, but it's got better stats, so..." while every armor set just looks like something she meticulously arranged herself.