I'm not sure if you're saying the experience of Asian people towards the film were dismissed or not. The reception of the film in Japan at the time was actually quite positive.
And I'm not saying that people are wrong to have enjoyed it, but it doesn't invalidate the issues that others have brought up, including the ones you mentioned in your original comment. Funnily enough, the opinions of Japanese audiences only seem to ever get brought up in order to undermine the Asian diaspora's struggles in Hollywood. Funny how that works.
My honest answer is no, because it feels like it's basically a disagreement about a specific definition, not about whether it's a problem in general that Tom Cruise had to be the lead for the movie to be made (it's totally a problem). At the same time, the fact that you're telling me that it feels dismissive should at least prompt me to change up how I respond to this kind of thing (I need to think about this more).
Yeah, you're totally right about that. Hell, the final scene of the movie bothered my teenage self in the theater before I was even explicitly aware of the dynamics. Purely in terms of tropes, though (and maybe I'm a nerd about this), it's a case of mighty whitey, just like you said (as opposed to white savior).
I'm sure there are some (many?) that fit that description -- I do think for others (at least for me) it's not about absolving the movie of its issues, but rather about accurately describing its issues.
I'd be interested in what you think re: the question I added in my edit: "On a related note, does it feel like we're now past that trope? Or do we still frequently see the "white protagonist in films about other cultures" thing? Last one I remember is when there was talk about a Brie Larson movie set in India(?)... but that was a while ago."
I can appreciate your point, but I really think the majority of people who are arguing the point aren't doing so in the interest of accurate trope identification.
As to your last point, no, I don't think that we're past it, considering the Jared Leto led Yakuza film that released in 2018.