A lot of people showing their privilege in this thread.
"Non-trans people should be the default."
"I don't care for labels."
"I wish an alternative or synonym was used!"
"I don't like the way it sounds!"
"Why do we need a term for it?"
"The trans community uses it to imply transphobia about people who aren't trans!"
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Seriously?
It's honestly infuriating and insulting to keep reading these kinds of posts. It's also veering (or plunging head first) into transphobia too.
Understand the following statement: When a group. near universally regarded as more privileged, is considered the default or the normal, the other group automatically becomes marginalized by association. Yes, said group is the majority. But that doesn't necessarily mean they should be the "default" in people's minds. By doing this, you demean our struggle to be seen with respect and to be seen as equals. You downplay the scientific and philosophical importance of having terms like this. Perhaps most noticeably, however, you give significant power and ammunition to the worst of the bigots and transphobes. Which lets them hurt us even more, and take away our rights and our dignity.
The term "cisgender" has an important context within relevant discussions. It's not a slur, and it's been used for years. You don't care about labels? Good, you're very unlike to hear it used in regular conversation anyhow. I can count the amount of times that I, a trans person, have heard it in a context that wasn't relevant and wasn't also an attempt at bigotry. You ask why do we need a term for it? Because the distinction is important. Like "heterosexual" vs "homosexual" or "straight" vs "gay." And guess what? Those terms have importance within their relevant context too.
You've never heard the word used before? We live in cultures and societies that are inherently transphobic. This is especially true if you're from the UK, where transphobes have gained a significant foothold regarding the messaging about transgender people. How many discussions on JK Rowling and the influence she's had over TERFs have we had at Era?
You don't like the way it sounds? What exactly is so offending to you about a commonly used Latin prefix? We use them all the time in our culture. What is so special about this ONE SPECIFIC WORD that it bothers you so much?
You wish there was an alternative or synonym to use, but you've never once in your life suggested what that alternative might be? Well why not engage that conversation if you really feel it should be alternative? I personally have never once heard this argument made in good faith and/or had the person also stick around to actually discuss what might be an appropriate alternative.
Trans people use it as a "pejorative"? You don't like it when we use it in regards to cisgender people? Probably because so many people love to downplay our struggles. Often over the pettiest of things. We experience discrimination almost EVERY DAY of our lives. In places that you would never expect to be discriminated against.
I got discriminated against three times today at work alone, just because people heard my name and my voice didn't quite match the picture in their head. I also got "Sir'd" by several people despite introducing myself with an obviously feminine first name, often seconds after the fact. It's demoralizing and disillusioning. And now you're saying we use it as a pejorative?
Might want to check yourself there if that is the kind of argument you're making.
Cisgender isn't going anywhere as a word. It's here to stay. barring a significant cultural shift in the English language. You can either get over your silly issues with it and help us normalize it, so trans people can be seen as valid and legitimate. Or you can continue to engage in actions that hurt us and give our worst enemies more firepower to hurt us.