For me, it's Chicago (definitely in the pre-spring, at least). I enjoyed the city's architecture and the lakeside attractions were very pretty, but many of the neighborhoods I did visit during my short time there felt... a bit off. The gay bar scene was devoid of the excitement I feel in New York even at the same time of year or when experiencing the same weather.
I also felt accosted on the el more than once, starting with the ride from O'Hare. It emotionally left a grimy and lousy first impression. I could get the same treatment at home for free - why did I get on a plane just to see what it was like?
I also felt accosted on the el more than once, starting with the ride from O'Hare. It emotionally left a grimy and lousy first impression. I could get the same treatment at home for free - why did I get on a plane just to see what it was like?
Maybe the physical similarities between Chicago and New York made it too "familiar" to me to be interesting? Dense street grids! Trains! People I know flaking out on me after expressing interest in meeting! It really could have just been bad luck. But I'm not going to try my luck. Next time I want to be not-home again, it's Los Angeles or Toronto.
I'm
in the Chicago area and well....I pretty much agree with this poster's sentiments. I never really liked the Chicago area. I've seen mostly all of it and let me say I've been to cities much
much better than Chicago! The only ties I've had keeping me here is my family. Once my health issues are resolved-hopefully get resolved that is-I'm out of here. I'm going much further South. Within the City limits of Chicago itself...it's a damn war zone. I haven't been to downtown in.....many years now for this reason. Worse yet the crime is really starting to spill out into the South and Southwest suburbs now too! no real friends, no opportunities here, I'm just done with Chicago. I respect those who call it home that love it. I just never liked it. I can't do winter here anymore, gets dark at 4pm, cold, snowy..just don't have it in me anymore. My parents have chosen to be buried here, I respect that. They grew up and have lived here, this is all they really know well.
Downstate is much better to me. Much friendlier people without the shadow of Chicago looming over it. Shit even Rockford has distanced itself from Chicago. Rockford is only 60 miles from O'Hare but
damn they don't want to be associated with Chicago. I don't blame them! They've got their own TV, radio stations and even airport. Even Rockford is a nicer place imo than Chicago.
I saw Kankakee mentioned up thread. I'm about 30 miles north of there. At one time they were really trying to make it a nice tourist destination. There's a lot of outdoor things to do in the immediate area around it and they were you know sensibly trying to build the tourist presence around those things. They even had an FM Tourist Info radio station at one point! That went dark quite quite a while back, and the tourist initiative has mostly fallen apart. It's just another small city now. But for a while they were really trying to upgrade and liven it up. Too bad it didn't catch on and stick.
Edit- just looked outta curiosity and I'll be
damned, that Tourist Info radio station down in Kankakee is still active! Shit, sorry guys I thought it went dark long ago. You can only get it now if you're passing through Kankakee County though. I used to be able to get it at my house when weather cooperated. Hmm maybe I should try to get it one of these days, wonder what angle they're using on there these days.