This is an internal discussion In the gaming side with the gamer lol. I term I have no issues with as a term myself. But I do think there's a difference behind the term itself and actually living it out obsessively.
However, it's not the only hobby where this happens. Stoners are notorious for this stuff. I had a friend that basically all he did was smoke, talk about weed, and make self deprecating jokes about his constant weed use. Weed shirts, other stoner friends, etc. I'm not anti weed, but man, there's more to life than a hobby, including one that does bring you some nice highs from time to time.
Audiophiles are another subgroup I see this with a lot.
Heck, there are even more socially acceptable "hobbies" where people define their entire personality, like constant travel or the tech bro special—crypto lol.
Foodies are another.
Gun obsessives are another. When you're posing with AR15s in your holiday card, maybe its time to reevaluate things?
Vanlife! Cool you live in a van.
And so on.
I would saw for myself, the closest I got to this was video games, but this was in JHS. It's all I've talked about, read about, thought about. By HS and on, I still gamed, and still do, but I've diversified my interest and got some self awareness lol.
I'm not crapping on hobbies. "Everyone needs a hobby", but I do think overidentification with hobbies seems a bit much.
However, it's not the only hobby where this happens. Stoners are notorious for this stuff. I had a friend that basically all he did was smoke, talk about weed, and make self deprecating jokes about his constant weed use. Weed shirts, other stoner friends, etc. I'm not anti weed, but man, there's more to life than a hobby, including one that does bring you some nice highs from time to time.
Audiophiles are another subgroup I see this with a lot.
Heck, there are even more socially acceptable "hobbies" where people define their entire personality, like constant travel or the tech bro special—crypto lol.
Foodies are another.
Gun obsessives are another. When you're posing with AR15s in your holiday card, maybe its time to reevaluate things?
Vanlife! Cool you live in a van.
And so on.
I would saw for myself, the closest I got to this was video games, but this was in JHS. It's all I've talked about, read about, thought about. By HS and on, I still gamed, and still do, but I've diversified my interest and got some self awareness lol.
I'm not crapping on hobbies. "Everyone needs a hobby", but I do think overidentification with hobbies seems a bit much.