Favorable. I have a son, he just turned 11 months old. I didn't always think I'd be a parent, but I decided to go for it, for a few reasons.
1. I'm glad that I was born. In the long run, I think and hope that most people are. I'm grateful for what I've experienced in my life, and I want to give my son the same chance to enjoy and appreciate his own life, with all its ups and downs.
1. I've tried my best to be a good and empathetic person. I won't always be around. I hope I can raise my son to be a compassionate citizen of the planet who will have a positive effect on the world.
3. I felt drawn to being a parent, especially as I got older and got to interact with my friends' kids. I feel like a natural dad, and my personality makes it easy and fun for me to be around kids.
4. The experience of raising a human being in all of its complexity and mystery is incredibly rewarding and has helped make me a better person.
5. I'm in a financial and emotional place to give my son a good life, with a stable and happy marriage. I don't worry about providing for him or giving him what he needs to be safe and successful. That's something I've only been able to say in the past few years, which is why I waited until my mid 30s to have a baby.
I'm so glad I went for it. My son is an amazing little guy. Sweet, affectionate, and a laugh riot. I knew that this would be something special, but I didn't realize just how special it would be.
He's the only baby we'll have, and I'm 100% fine with that. It's an incredible experience but also very challenging, so I admire anyone with two or more kids.
You don't really hear people say "I don't like adults and want nothing to do with any of them".
Heard that on Era several times...lol