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Were You Allowed To Watch R-rated Movies as a Child? Will You Let Your Kid?
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except for a short period living with my great aunt, yes. I was raised by Russians and Brits who don't give a fuck about stuff like that.
I saw Stir of Echoes & The Cell in theaters when I was 7/8, sometimes I wonder what the hell my parents were thinking taking me to see movies like that at such a young age.
My oldest daughter turns 7 this summer and there is no way i would let her watch things like that yet.
My oldest daughter turns 7 this summer and there is no way i would let her watch things like that yet.
I was, and I raised my kids on all of my favorite shit.
They've been avid fans of horror in particular for a long time. I took them to see Midsommar last year and my youngest said it was easily one of her favorites.
They've been avid fans of horror in particular for a long time. I took them to see Midsommar last year and my youngest said it was easily one of her favorites.
I was allowed to watch R-rated films. My parents were far more concerned with age-appropriate games, hence why I was able to watch Pulp Fiction at 12 years old while my mother wrung her hands about me getting Tony Hawk Underground for Christmas.
I'm not going to have kids, but if I did I would let them watch R-rated films. Honestly, kids movies exempted because they'd be watching those straight out of the womb, I would kind of want my kids to have a somewhat chronological experience of film as a medium. I'm not gonna get them started on Birth of a Nation or anything, but I do kinda feel like my film brain was broken by getting deep into Tarantino before going backward to dig into his inspirations. I could see a kid getting some mileage out of Chaplin, Astaire, or Capra depending on the personality.
This is why I'll never have children. I would treat them as experiments.
I'm not going to have kids, but if I did I would let them watch R-rated films. Honestly, kids movies exempted because they'd be watching those straight out of the womb, I would kind of want my kids to have a somewhat chronological experience of film as a medium. I'm not gonna get them started on Birth of a Nation or anything, but I do kinda feel like my film brain was broken by getting deep into Tarantino before going backward to dig into his inspirations. I could see a kid getting some mileage out of Chaplin, Astaire, or Capra depending on the personality.
This is why I'll never have children. I would treat them as experiments.
My kids can't get through the Lion King yet (6 and 7)
They got very upset when Mufasa was killed.
I am trying to slowly warm them up to stuff, we watched Escape From Witch Mountain with the Rock the other day and they quite liked it
even tho its pretty intense action, lots of explosions and fights and chases and whatnot.
I really can't wait till we can watch Marvel movies etc togther, no real interest in showing them horror movies or hard action.
TBH outside of action movies, most R-rated stuff nowadays seems to be using it as a sales pitch, and they fucking insert whatever fucking
words they fucking well want to hit the fucking rating they are fucking going for.
They got very upset when Mufasa was killed.
I am trying to slowly warm them up to stuff, we watched Escape From Witch Mountain with the Rock the other day and they quite liked it
even tho its pretty intense action, lots of explosions and fights and chases and whatnot.
I really can't wait till we can watch Marvel movies etc togther, no real interest in showing them horror movies or hard action.
TBH outside of action movies, most R-rated stuff nowadays seems to be using it as a sales pitch, and they fucking insert whatever fucking
words they fucking well want to hit the fucking rating they are fucking going for.
My child is not getting to the age of ten without seeing Robocop/Aliens/Predator/Terminator/Die Hard. This is the way.
I am not really seeing how it's appropriate to take a kid to see Deadpool with the only justification that you don't want to wait
My stepbrother woukdt let me but dad would sneakily let me watch them. Aliens, T2, Predator, Robocop.
My daughter is 12 and I'm allowing get to watch some with me-depends on the film. She's really interested in filmmaking so I let her watch 1917 because she was interested in the one shot technique.
My daughter is 12 and I'm allowing get to watch some with me-depends on the film. She's really interested in filmmaking so I let her watch 1917 because she was interested in the one shot technique.
I think I was generally allowed to (with exceptions, probably) but I wasn't particularly interested until I was at least ~12 or 13. I think I saw Matrix around then.
I probably wouldn't say "yeah, sure watch whatever you want!" but I'd probably let a kid I thought was mature enough to handle it watch an R-rated movie. I'd want to pre-screen it so that I could make that judgement call, though.
I probably wouldn't say "yeah, sure watch whatever you want!" but I'd probably let a kid I thought was mature enough to handle it watch an R-rated movie. I'd want to pre-screen it so that I could make that judgement call, though.
Define "child", are you meaning a very specific age range? I wasn't allowed to watch R rated movies until I was 10, with a couple exceptions and even then it was only when watching with the family.
I agree with this, definitely needs to be taken on a case by case situation.
Terminator, Friday 13, Nightmare on elm street.
Watched them all
Absolutely will not let my kids watch them.
Watched them all
Absolutely will not let my kids watch them.
my parents took it on a movie by movie basis
probably the "wrong" way to go about it but different times. back then it was wink wink nod nod enjoy your stupid shit like friday the 13th or elm street or whatever
i'd never do that with my kids but again different times, you had luxury to freak out about blood in games or whatever
probably the "wrong" way to go about it but different times. back then it was wink wink nod nod enjoy your stupid shit like friday the 13th or elm street or whatever
i'd never do that with my kids but again different times, you had luxury to freak out about blood in games or whatever
Violence, sex, such things didn't mean anything at all. In that era some kids movies had both, if not the quest for the latter.
It was the style of the time.
It was the style of the time.
Commando and Die Hard were amongst the first movies I ever saw. When I was a kid, my grandmothers brother got her a VHS player and he would also get movies from him. I grew up in a small community in Jamaica —at the time, there wasn't that many people who had a VHS let alone a televsion. G, PG, PG-13, R....we were oblivous to movie ratings lol. When got a new movie we all gather around and watch, and if didn't get any new ones for a while we would re-watch the ones we have.
One of my favorite childhood films was The Matrix. I would watch it on repeat as a little kid. When I had a babysitter from time to time they were always confused lol. My parents only had an issue with nudity which I honestly don't find the big deal about. We would skip through the scene in Matrix Reloaded.
I used to watch them all the time when I was a kid, they didn't lead to any negative effects. However, I will be far more selective than my parents and grand parents were with my children. (I already have a 5 and 3 year old and they sure as hell aren't watching R rated things yet). I won't say no but I will say it depends on the movie, what is actual in the movie and how old they are.
Raised on horror/slasher and action movies. I'd let my kids watch whatever they wanted, and just watch their reactions. If it's too much then I'd stop it and explain it to them and see if they wanted to continue with it.
I got Terminator 2 on VHS for Christmas the year it came out, I was 6 I think. My mom generally didn't give much of a shit until Jurassic Park. I wasn't allowed to see it in theaters because another friend saw it and his mother told mine that he was terrified. I had to wait for the VHS release. I also saw Scream when I was 10, and Something About Mary at 12, and even went with my mom and her friends to see Halloween H20 and Scary Movie in the theaters.
Edit: I really wanted to see Batman Returns but my cousin told my mom how violent it was and she said no. What a fucker. She also let me watch Rocky Horror Picture Show at like 6 or 7.
Edit: I really wanted to see Batman Returns but my cousin told my mom how violent it was and she said no. What a fucker. She also let me watch Rocky Horror Picture Show at like 6 or 7.
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I remember not being allowed to watch R rated films when I was really young, like below 10? But I got a TV in my room pretty early so I snuck-watched whatever I wanted lol. During my early teens/tweens I recall things getting much more lax, although still a little controlled. Once I fully moved in with my mom around 7th grade I was basically given full reign to do whatever I wanted, though. Plus side of being a chill, behaved child with an easy going single parent. :^))
I don't plan to have kids, but if by some weird stroke of life I did, I'd probably follow a similar path -- although it'd highly depend on the kid's temperament and the movies in question of course. Like for myself, once I hit around 7/8 I never recall having any issues with media scaring or upsetting me -- I knew what was real and what wasn't so I never had any problems. But I def recall kids growing up that absolutely could not handle any kind of scary media (heck, I have a friend now like this). It'd really just all depend.
I don't plan to have kids, but if by some weird stroke of life I did, I'd probably follow a similar path -- although it'd highly depend on the kid's temperament and the movies in question of course. Like for myself, once I hit around 7/8 I never recall having any issues with media scaring or upsetting me -- I knew what was real and what wasn't so I never had any problems. But I def recall kids growing up that absolutely could not handle any kind of scary media (heck, I have a friend now like this). It'd really just all depend.
Depended on the movie, but usually yes if my mom was watching. Only rules were don't repeat bad words and look away during sex scenes. If I have kids, I would let them watch R rated movies provided they aren't like 5 and I know the reason the movie is R rated.
Many toys in the 80s were based off 18 rated movies.
Aliens, Terminator, Robocop etc. Saw them all.
Aliens, Terminator, Robocop etc. Saw them all.
Tbh I should probably never have kids but as an exmormon I can trace most of my social anxiety and depression to my repressive childhood. Not saying I'm going to watch porn with them, but the last thing I want to do is make my kids afraid of their own bodies like I was.
I did watch them fairly freely. If I had kids, I would decide based on film, age/behaviour and contents that gave the classification. Whether or not an adult is watching with them is worth considering too.
Lets be honest, ratings can be inconsistent too. The King's Speech, Love is Strange and the Matrix is R too IIRC. Classification can also change depending which review board/region or just get revised over time.
To me, these classifications are just a guide/quick reference. I can review its contents online and make the decision myself.
If I can't decide on the spot, I'll let the kid watch something else. I can review the film in question when I find the time and then we can watch it afterwards (or when they are older).
I'm also fairly confident that kids will watch stuff at friend's place etc. I'd rather be open to the conversation and know what they are watching rather than just flat out "No R movies" which just means keeping secrets from me really.
Lets be honest, ratings can be inconsistent too. The King's Speech, Love is Strange and the Matrix is R too IIRC. Classification can also change depending which review board/region or just get revised over time.
To me, these classifications are just a guide/quick reference. I can review its contents online and make the decision myself.
If I can't decide on the spot, I'll let the kid watch something else. I can review the film in question when I find the time and then we can watch it afterwards (or when they are older).
I'm also fairly confident that kids will watch stuff at friend's place etc. I'd rather be open to the conversation and know what they are watching rather than just flat out "No R movies" which just means keeping secrets from me really.
I did see Braveheart, Runaway, and Saving Private Ryan in my teens, but I avoided R-rated movies because my parents told me to when I was 6. That's why I didn't see the Terminator movies until I was 26, and I didn't see The Matrix until later.
Oh, and I'm not having kids.
Oh, and I'm not having kids.
I misunderstood your post, I thought you said that violence was fine but not nudity lol
I saw Scream at age ten. It really depends on the movie and how mature my kid is. The R rating is frankly meaningless. The whole rating system is meaningless.