Ok may have figured out what's going on — noticed turn timer in game. When creating a match, turn timer setting is set to default and can't be changed. When I create a match with that setting, then check match setting from lobby, it says turn timer is off. So I think it's always on but settings incorrectly said it was off, making me think it actually was off.
Found another new bug though lol — was in a match and I couldn't find new match with quick match, it just dumped me back into existing match. Could start a new match by hosting though
Do 4p matches get ppl from quick match or is that code only? Nobody showed up.
Edit: and can ppl ready up async? Or does everyone need to be there at same time to start? The "gold standard" stuff seems totally unwarranted. Ambiguous UIs, buggy features. Not even close.
Edit2: hosted a match, set to 2v2... it lists 4 teams on ready screen. Seriously this game is not even ready for early access.
Edit3: game says their turn, I go check on it, see their turn, then says my turn, immediately ends my turn, then does another turn for them.
Yeah, I'm done. $20 down the drain.