Let's talk money, Era. Or ... let's not. Because I don't know anybody here so I don't think I'm going to start sharing details about my finances. However, when it comes to people you trust endlessly and would consider to be your closest friends in the world (i.e. there's a 0% chance they would share a secret or privileged information with anybody), how much do you share? Are finances discussed? Do you feel comfortable talking about money with your friends? Are you able to comfortably reconcile with the idea of knowing that you have far better or far worse means than your closest friends?
Maybe my friends and I are weird, but we talk about this stuff all of the time in open, detailed terms. We are all aware of who makes dollars and who makes dimes in the group, but we never let it affect how we interact as friends, nor is there ever any pressure on the dollar guys to add more to a collective experience than the dime guys. There are moments where the dime guys are asked what their budgets look like and what's reasonable for a group experience, but that's about where the "balancing" aspect begins and ends.
Maybe my friends and I are weird, but we talk about this stuff all of the time in open, detailed terms. We are all aware of who makes dollars and who makes dimes in the group, but we never let it affect how we interact as friends, nor is there ever any pressure on the dollar guys to add more to a collective experience than the dime guys. There are moments where the dime guys are asked what their budgets look like and what's reasonable for a group experience, but that's about where the "balancing" aspect begins and ends.