Fuck man, Im sorry you know this topic....awful, heart breaking stuff even just to hear about...
I would never ever kink shame, in fact I think the world would be a better place if we didn't.... but no, this is where the line NEEDS to be drawn, and in many cases it is. Nothing but terrible stories where people are damaged by such awful interactions/acts and how long-term its effect can last. it crushes me to hear people's stories. And I hate how much of this is still in a state where we just stick fingers in our ears and pretend it doesn't exist. Japanese media filling an awful niche of this and playing it up as "just cartoons" doesn't at all separate the horror of how heinous a thing it represents.
People are not media savvy, even when they say they are. And it's disappointing how often "it's fake!", "it's a game!", or "it's not real!" comes into play. People are too often too stupid to fully appreciate how much media affects us.
