The best part is that there's pretty much an option for everyone now. Just like PC gaming.
Low cost, but decent quality no matter what? Pick from the 5 to 10 WMR headsets out there or PSVR.
Wireless or bust? HTC Vive, Vive Pro, Quest, or Go
No extensive or intrusive setup? Quest or Rift S, maybe Go
Best All rounder? Probably Rift S.
Top quality OLED Screens? Odyssey Plus, Vive Pro, Pimax 5k BE/XR. The PSVR ain't so bad either.
Top quality LCD? HP reverb (resolution), Index (refresh rate). Rift S has gotten some praise as well despite its screens noticeable shortcomings
Best Lenses? Rift S, Quest, Go (so far)
Bigger FOV? Pick a Pimax, or settle for an Index.
Sure, there is no perfect headset and that stinks. Having a bunch of headsets lying around isn't ideal. Just like there's isn't (nor has there ever been) a perfect TV. Oh well.
A cool thing is that the used hardware market for OG Vives and Rifts will open up soon. $300 or less complete in box Vive sets are probably on the table. It's not a bad option, its how I got my Vive equipment initially. The Vive is a good piece of kit with a perfectly serviceable (but flawed in build quality) set of controllers. The 1.0 base stations will still work great.