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Night Hunter

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Dec 5, 2017
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I mean one could argue dark skin puts one at a disadvantage but there would be outcry if parents used skin products to make their child lighter skinned.

Hoo boy do I have stories for you from India. I mean, here in the West, tanning yourself is pretty easy, all things considered.

Parents forcing their daughters (because of course) to bleach their fucking skin...

Yeah, South East Asia can be absolutely fucked up in that regard.
 

Puroresu_kid

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Oct 28, 2017
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Dating is a nightmare due to being short? I don't know that that's really the case.

When I was single apps like tinder weren't the easiest. Many a time the first question would be "how tall are you". Of course you can try and use some game to get them focusing on something else but it was damn annoying constantly being asked how tall you are before anything else.
 

Elderly Parrot

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Aug 13, 2018
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I'm 6'2" and here in the Bay Area I constantly see people much taller than me. On BART Sometimes I see people that have to hunch over because they can't stand fully upright.
As a 6'1" man I only notice the tall men because they are that tall in a sea of short peeps.
 

Phil me in

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Nov 22, 2018
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How well do growth hormones work while you're growing.

a kid who would end up being 5 8 could be 6 foot if given enough?
 

jfkgoblue

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Oct 27, 2017
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NYC. No shortage of tall folks out here
I suppose if you are in crowds a lot you would notice it because you just see more people in general.
Steroids too, and look hoy many of this instagram athletes and movie stars are on gear. This doesn't stop people.
Steroids have made a huge comeback in recent years due to how men's attractiveness has shifted back to super ripped due to (IMO) the rise of super hero movies. People like to talk about how Hollywood sets ridiculous beauty standards for women, but it's getting to be almost just as bad for men.
 

louiedog

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Oct 25, 2017
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I had a friend in high school whose parents would drive him 5 hours to a specialist regularly for some kind of growth hormone treatment to hopefully get taller. I matured quickly (started getting tall earlier than most of my peers) and was over a foot taller than him at one point, but he caught up later. No idea if the treatment helped.

I have no clue how much money they had or if they got insurance to cover it. Parents worked fairly middle class jobs but I think there was some family money.

I'm 6'2" and here in the Bay Area I constantly see people much taller than me. On BART Sometimes I see people that have to hunch over because they can't stand fully upright.

It's really changed in the last few years. I used to tower over everyone on muni/bart. About 10 years ago it felt like there were more and more very tall European descended people than there used to be.
 

Doober

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Jun 10, 2018
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If I had the money and it worked reliably without side effects I'd do it for my son, no question.
 

Haruko

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Oct 25, 2017
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My brother and I each had 6 years of daily injections of HGH because we were diagnosed with growth hormone deficiency.
I'd have been under 5 ft tall without it; instead I am 5'10".

It was covered by our normal insurance.

I had a 3 hour blood test (GH levels checked every 15-30 min while they did some sort of tests, not sure what exactly) and an MRI of my pituitary gland to get the diagnosis.

The vials of Nutropin AQ (what I took) were stupid expensive; we couldn't have afforded it w/o insurance.
Each tiny 10mg vial cost $450 (back in like 1998), and as my dosage went up as I gained weight, a vial started out lasting a week and at the end lasted only 3~ days.

I was on it from 6th-11th grade. They did x-rays to check growth plates on my bones; once those are fused there's not really any more height to be gained and it's time to stop
 
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I'm 5'9, which mean I am dead average for a caucasian male. Anyone who judges me for that can kindly go fuck themselves, and I wouldn't want to date anyone who feels that way anyhow.
 
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-COOLIO-

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Oct 25, 2017
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If a teenager's growth plates are sealed, I doubt it would have much effect. If they're open - maybe, but I imagine parents / grandparent's height to be an ultimate genetic determinant.

It's annoying to be average height but be considered short since expectations for men's height are so high, but whatever.

Unlike exercise, skin care, or good hygiene - height is not something that can be safely increased after puberty and shouldn't be worth worrying about. This 'manlet' shit is something that, along with other manifestations of toxic masculinity, needs to die.
There's good reason to believe that attraction to height is programmed into us. And if so that's not something you can just teach out of people.

Apart from the fact that the money could go to better uses, I'm not sure there's anything wrong with this unless there's adverse health effects.
 

Kain-Nosgoth

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Oct 25, 2017
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My brother and I each had 6 years of daily injections of HGH because we were diagnosed with growth hormone deficiency.
I'd have been under 5 ft tall without it; instead I am 5'10".

It was covered by our normal insurance.

I had a 3 hour blood test (GH levels checked every 15-30 min while they did some sort of tests, not sure what exactly) and an MRI of my pituitary gland to get the diagnosis.

The vials of Nutropin AQ (what I took) were stupid expensive; we couldn't have afforded it w/o insurance.
Each tiny 10mg vial cost $450 (back in like 1998), and as my dosage went up as I gained weight, a vial started out lasting a week and at the end lasted only 3~ days.

I was on it from 6th-11th grade. They did x-rays to check growth plates on my bones; once those are fused there's not really any more height to be gained and it's time to stop

welp you were definitely more lucky than me, 5'10 is tall compared to my 5'2 now, even with the hormones (but i'm least i'm not 4'5 like it was predicted if i didn't take any)
 

-COOLIO-

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I knew someone in school whose mum paid for him to have this procedure. He was very short and they had go abroad for this operation. His legs were surgically broken and placed in these massive cages, cos apparently it could make him taller.
Isn't the hormone therapy discussed in the op completely different from this?
 

Greg NYC3

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Oct 26, 2017
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I honestly didn't think it was that simple. Doesn't taking growth hormones cause random growth not just necessarily growing taller?
 

Haruko

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Oct 25, 2017
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welp you were definitely more lucky than me, 5'10 is tall compared to my 5'2 now, even with the hormones (but i'm least i'm not 4'5 like it was predicted if i didn't take any)

Yeah, my brother ended up 5'11". We were pretty fortunate that it worked so well for us.

a 9 inch height improvement ain't shabby either though. I don't miss the daily injections, that's for sure lol


I honestly didn't think it was that simple. Doesn't taking growth hormones cause random growth not just necessarily growing taller?

I'm not 100% sure, but I will say I did end up with size 13 feet when my 6-year treatment was done. My brother didn't have that though
 

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Height is one of the many privileges this place seems to take for granted. Guys posting like 5'8" plus that ain't short in the big picture.
 
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Pau

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Oct 25, 2017
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My parents considered doing this for me because they thought I was too short. I fought against it because I didn't care about being tall.

I didn't end up getting it, and I'm the average height for a Colombian woman, below average for an American woman. Only slightly shorter than my mother.

I did get puberty blockers for a year instead because I got my period early to the point it was pretty traumatic. I have no idea if it was covered by insurance.
 

Serif

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Oct 27, 2017
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There's good reason to believe that attraction to height is programmed into us. And if so that's not something you can just teach out of people.

Not sure what that has to do with getting rid of the 'manlet' stigma, i.e. specifically an issue of body image concerning men. You can't modify someone's preferences but you can change social norms and positive representation.
 

RedMercury

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Dec 24, 2017
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When I was single apps like tinder weren't the easiest. Many a time the first question would be "how tall are you". Of course you can try and use some game to get them focusing on something else but it was damn annoying constantly being asked how tall you are before anything else.
What? This is well known. Specially online dating.
Alright, so it makes it harder online dating, but a nightmare? Why not try meeting people IRL like before there were apps? I think anyone with any "undesirable" trait is going to hard a harder time on platforms where those things can be easily filtered out, but it isn't the only way to date, unless that's just me talking from the perspective of someone who hasn't dated since apps became prevalent, but just 3 years ago Pew Research said that only 5% of people in committed relationships had met through dating apps. There's so many shorter dudes who are in relationships and so many people who say height is not a dealbreaker that it's hard to reconcile it making things a nightmare.
 

Einchy

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Oct 25, 2017
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Alright, so it makes it harder online dating, but a nightmare? Why not try meeting people IRL like before there were apps? I think anyone with any "undesirable" trait is going to hard a harder time on platforms where those things can be easily filtered out, but it isn't the only way to date, unless that's just me talking from the perspective of someone who hasn't dated since apps became prevalent, but just 3 years ago Pew Research said that only 5% of people in committed relationships had met through dating apps. There's so many shorter dudes who are in relationships and so many people who say height is not a dealbreaker that it's hard to reconcile it making things a nightmare.
How is this the first time you're hearing about this?
 

RedMercury

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How is this the first time you're hearing about this?
I've heard about it Ein, I just disagree with the characterization that it makes things a nightmare. It's concerning to me because it's something men internalize and then can use as a post-hoc rationalization for why they have trouble dating, and that can lead to really toxic attitudes towards women. I'm not saying anyone posting here is doing that, but people read it and the message it can send is "if you're short, you're fucked, might as well take a red pill" or whatever the fuck. I've admitted online it might make things more challenging, but even then, who would want to be with a person who would discount someone based on a fairly meaningless immutable characteristic?
 

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I hope I'm wrong, but it seems like there are many people on this site (and on the internet in general) who don't want to admit that physical appearance matters (to varying extents) in most if not all known human interactions, which is really funny if you think about. Have you ever noticed that most of the people who give dating advice online are the same people who regularly post photos of themselves, and are surprisingly at least average looking to attractive? That they have certain aesthetic traits that are according to what data there is are considered advantageous?

Almost no one wants to admit that it wasn't just their glowing personality that helped get them their jobs, their friends, their significant others, etc. Almost no one wants to admit that many people will treat someone poorly and assume very negative things about them because they don't meet certain appearance standards. REALLY funny if you think about, on this site of all places.
 
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Einchy

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Oct 25, 2017
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I've heard about it Ein, I just disagree with the characterization that it makes things a nightmare. It's concerning to me because it's something men internalize and then can use as a post-hoc rationalization for why they have trouble dating, and that can lead to really toxic attitudes towards women. I'm not saying anyone posting here is doing that, but people read it and the message it can send is "if you're short, you're fucked, might as well take a red pill" or whatever the fuck. I've admitted online it might make things more challenging, but even then, who would want to be with a person who would discount someone based on a fairly meaningless immutable characteristic?
Not being tall or hot makes online dating a nightmare for guys. You can say this may lead to toxic behavior on their part but it doesn't change that it's still a nightmare for them.

Online dating is shallow as fuck and when you're not the ideal body type, you're gonna have a real hard time.
 

bionic77

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Oct 25, 2017
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How well do growth hormones work while you're growing.

a kid who would end up being 5 8 could be 6 foot if given enough?
My friend who lived down the street was given growth hormone.

His elder sister was really short, like 5'4". He and his sister were both given it and the sister was about 5'6" and he grew to 5'9", which was much taller than his parents.

I can't say if it was worth it or if it even works but he always seemed very healthy.
 

bionic77

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Not being tall or hot makes online dating a nightmare for guys. You can say this may lead to toxic behavior on their part but it doesn't change that it's still a nightmare for them.

Online dating is shallow as fuck and when you're not the ideal body type, you're gonna have a real hard time.
That's no different than clubbing then.

That's also a real meat market.

People are shitty no matter the environment.
 

RedMercury

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Dec 24, 2017
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Not being tall or hot makes online dating a nightmare for guys. You can say this may lead to toxic behavior on their part but it doesn't change that it's still a nightmare for them.

Online dating is shallow as fuck and when you're not the ideal body type, you're gonna have a real hard time.
But then how does that explain shorter guys who don't have a hard time? What is it that makes them have an easier time?
 

SilentSoldier

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Oct 27, 2017
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I've heard a lot about these treatments, theyre usually covered under insurance if the kid either has a diagnosed deficiency or is considerably shorter than they should be for their age. It all has to be documented by a pediatrician and whatnot.