Extremely real.
***BUT***
Lets not forget that corporations like P&G are literally bringing upon the apocalypse...
Let's all talk about...
"... what I want to talk about instead!"
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Extremely real.
***BUT***
Lets not forget that corporations like P&G are literally bringing upon the apocalypse...
I dunno man. How old were these blokes? I don't think anyone wouldn't immediately realise how racist that was.
Problem is you'd probably get a 'i would have said that to a white person! It's because his phone's going off, not because he's black.' Even assuming that's true it's an obviously different context.
But do they? Hell, I don't want to minimize what they go through but there are still some privileges caked into the experience they have. I've had friends tell me how their employers are more eager to hire white faces for their Eikaiwa (regardless of ability) because of how it will look. Somewhat related, I had a conversation with an older white guy last year about getting the look in Japan. He seemed to be getting it until he added the implication that black guys deserve the treatment because we're uppity. And it's shit like that that makes me think, nah, they don't really get it.
We're in this together, my dude. Just return the nod when we give you the nod.
Keep your Stacy Dash brand of anti-blackness to yourself.Guess I'm lucky I'm in my city this isn't something that happens to me very often. I would have like them to show some of the opposite "look" I get from my own people when I bring my white wife around the old neighborhood. I notice that way more often and fine it extra annoying.
But gotta keep white people as the enemy I suppose.
There's always one who has to say it. So fucking embarrassing.Guess I'm lucky I'm in my city this isn't something that happens to me very often. I would have like them to show some of the opposite "look" I get from my own people when I bring my white wife around the old neighborhood. I notice that way more often and fine it extra annoying.
But gotta keep white people as the enemy I suppose.
I dunno man. How old were these blokes? I don't think anyone wouldn't immediately realise how racist that was.
Problem is you'd probably get a 'i would have said that to a white person! It's because his phone's going off, not because he's black.' Even assuming that's true it's an obviously different context.
The look is one thing, but you haven't truly loved until your presence has made someone full on RUN AWAY
not really the same at all. people give you looks because you're out of the ordinary, but it still comes with all the associated privileges including people going out of their way to help you out and seeing you as a financial opportunity and prioritizing you if they run a business.All of a sudden, white people start to get what other minorities go through, but in a safe environment where the majority won't drag them into the streets and beat the shit out of them.
Reading this post makes it very clear why you get that "look" from your own.Guess I'm lucky I'm in my city this isn't something that happens to me very often. I would have like them to show some of the opposite "look" I get from my own people when I bring my white wife around the old neighborhood. I notice that way more often and fine it extra annoying.
But gotta keep white people as the enemy I suppose.
Personally, please do.As a Hispanic POC, would it be acceptable to give a black man the Nod in solidarity or no?
Sure.As a Hispanic POC, would it be acceptable to give a black man the Nod in solidarity or no?
Yea that seems about right. It's quite the culture shock being down here for the last several years and people not even acknowledging other's existence when they walk past each other on the street. Not a smile, not a head nod. Bothers the fuck out of me, tbh.
But yea, I try to be as friendly as possible all the time. I'm on a first-name basis with all of the security guards at my sub-division. Even brought them pizza once. Not trying to become a statistic so I pocket them and hope all is well if they get a call to my residence one day.
Yeah man, same, I live in a place in the Nashville area called Bellevue, so you know I get looks. When I just started working at starbucks I dealt with so many people being angry that I worked there, so many people being afraid to even go through my line. Now they all love me and I can't go to a grocery store without one of them trying to talk to me or assuming they can bother my 7 month old daughter. So many old white ladies I don't know ask to hold her and I always say no. They always get offended, too. I gotta get outta here.I live in 90% White and Asian area, I get the looks daily, shits just expected at this point and ain't shit I can do about it.
I'm not sure this is a compliment at all, when I really think about it.Personally, I've never noticed "the look". I've literally been told by white people verbatim that I look non-threatening.
Yep.It's really something how we got to play chess like that right? It's to make sure we aren't a threat and to not be statistics in our own communities/spaces.
Sigh the Black experience
It would make me feel better if I got one from you on the street, so yes. Generally speaking, everyone feels a little better when people acknowledge each other's existence. I really don't know why people don't do it in some places. Flashing a smile and/or head nod requires so little energy and so few muscles. Just do it.As a Hispanic POC, would it be acceptable to give a black man the Nod in solidarity or no?
Was about to ask if PoC were fine with the head nod. I'm white and do it most of the time. It may also be completely different given this comment:Oh man, I totally give and get the nod ALL THE TIME.
Wait, am I only realizing now that I get the nod from PoCs here? White people never seem to do it...
Is "the nod" different from the standard nod that we give total strangers for inexplicable purpose?
One thing that has made for an interesting social experiment has been living in Japan. When you're a foreigner, it doesn't matter what color your skin is. You are always an "other". It doesn't matter how much japanese you speak, or how long you've lived here.
All of a sudden, white people start to get what other minorities go through, but in a safe environment where the majority won't drag them into the streets and beat the shit out of them.
This, I get it more in the progressive side of town then I do in the sticks in my area.The worst part is I find myself limiting myself, like I don't eat or shop in certain parts of town because I don't want no static. And I am not talking about the places that wave the confederate flag proudly.