On the other hand apartment living with an EV seems like a pain
Guess it depends on the apartment situation. There are chargers at Target here that can give you 80% in about 30 minutes. If you just park there and charge while running some errands every 4-5 days you're golden.
My work parking lot also has chargers here.
Seems like some small changes, but not as bad as people make it out to be.