I'll be honest, I've used Sad Dad as shorthand before. It is a kinda funny name with a ring to it, but it is definitely not all-encompassing. I mean, TLOU has a sad dad, but so does Halo Infinite as I joked on XboxEra the other day, so it doesn't quite work. Then you get into "Third Person Slow Walk and Talk Sad Dad Third Person Over The Shoulder Forest Walking Sim Third Person Shooters" as I've seen it dubbed which doesn't have the same ring and can be at times reductive, although it is more often than not said in a satirical matter like "dudebro shooty bang bang" for Xbox.
As for GOTY bait, I will defend that designation. Here are the GOTY Picks Winners from 2011 to 2020
2011 - Skyrim
2012 - Telltale's Walking Dead
2013 - TLOU
2014 - Dragon Age Inquisition
2015 - Witcher 3
2016 - Uncharted 4
2017 - Breath of the Wild
2018 - God of War
2019 - Death Stranding
2020 - TLOU Part II
3 RPGs, 1 Graphic Adventure, 6 Third-Person Action Adventure.
And here's the GOTY consensus winners from 2003-2010 + the DICE Awards for 2001 and 2002
2001 - Halo CE
2002 - Battlefield 1942
2003 - KOTOR
2004 - Half Life 2
2005 - Resident Evil 4
2006 - Oblivion
2007 - Bioshock
2008 - Fallout 3
2009 - Uncharted 2
2010 - Red Dead Redemption.
4 FPS Games, 3 RPGS, 1 Horror Game, 2 Third Person Action Adventure.
There was more variety beforehand, whereas now one genre holds a strangehold on the GOTY awards. Hell, it swept the last 5 years. Before people go on about polish or whatever, Overwatch, MSFS, Ori, Hades, Celeste, Mario Odyssey, Doom Eternal, Wolfenstein 2, Dreams, Forza Horizon 4, etc. So many great games go without winning. Several go without nomination in favour of more audience friendly choices (just look at 2019 where games like Disco Elysium, Fire Emblem Three Houses, Apex Legends and Luigi's Mansion 3 went unnominated in favour of worse reviewed games like Control and Death Stranding (which in fairness did win Consensus GOTY).