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R dott B

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Oct 27, 2017
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Some people need to get hit. A white dude being belligerent in front of a black man just trying to get somewhere is one of those people.

Imagine if white people just upped and slapped their racist uncles, aunts, grammas, and grandpas when they started being racist instead of excusing their shitty opinions because they're family and "that's just how they are."

Imagine.
Mmm yes.
 

redmason81

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The throwing of the bottle at Tyson, if true and backed by witnesses (it's not shown in the video, but there could be other videos) changes everything. Throwing a bottle at someone is an assault. And Tyson let him off easy because he could have easily knocked him out.
 

Violence Jack

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A person annoying someone else is not sufficient grounds for the latter to engage in violent retaliation. There were obvious non-violent solutions to the situation, yet Tyson decided the best course of action was to take matters into his own hands and engage in assault and battery, which, last I checked, is still a crime. Violence is only acceptable when it's in defending oneself or others from violence. "Talk shit, get hit" is something hot-headed teenagers believe in, but should not be considered an acceptable philosophy among adults.

I guess you missed the part where that drunken asshole threw a water bottle at him.

And let someone call me the n-word to my face or spit at me. Motherfucker is getting their jaw broken after that.
 
Oct 30, 2017
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Some of y'alls heightened levels of pacificity would put Jesus Christ to shame.

And I don't mean that as a compliment. That shit leads to the world walking over you.
 

GYODX

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Oct 27, 2017
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Watched the videos. I don't know how long it went on for, but the dude was being extremely obnoxious and clearly fishing for a reaction. Not hard to see why Mike lost his cool. Doubly so if the reports of throwing water bottles is true. He was literally asking for it.

I think Mike understands what could happen if someone of his strength and caliber were to seriously throw hands with a random dude, so there is somewhat of an onus on him to show more restraint than would be reasonably expected if it were you or me. That said, the dude looks pretty OK from what I can tell?
 

skillzilla81

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Watched the videos. I don't know how long it went on for, but the dude was being extremely obnoxious and clearly fishing for a reaction. Not hard to see why Mike lost his cool. Doubly so if the reports of throwing water bottles is true. He was literally asking for it.

I think Mike understands what could happen if someone of his strength and caliber were to seriously throw hands with a random dude, so there is somewhat of an onus on him to show more restraint than would be reasonably expected if it were you or me. That said, the dude looks pretty OK from what I can tell?

Pretty sure Mike was pulling his punches or that dude would be seriously hurt.
 

Royalan

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Oct 24, 2017
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Oh yeah.

Jesus was known to lay hands on people, and in more ways than one.
 

FFNB

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It's good that our bodies still warn us against deadly risks - looks like yours took the night off though. haha

LOL, right? It was like that Simpson's episode where Homer's brain just straight up grabbed a suitcase and walked out of his head XD XD


Lol thanks! It's just that sometimes people get pushed too far, and they snap. Like that video of that short kid bullying that bigger kid, and the kid just power bombs him because he had fucking had enough of the bully. My situation was reversed, in that I was the much smaller target, and the bully thought he could just keep picking on me like he did Freshman year, because i tend to have a pretty calm temperament, and was raised to not immediately resort to violence, and i can usually shrug off bullying and ignore it, but i had reached my limit with that jackass Sophomore year, and had to let him know what was up. Some bullies really won't back down until you knock some sense into them, and no amount of turning the other cheek is going to work.

I'm not condoning Tyson's actions (again, he's known to be aggressive and pop off), but I can understand his actions for sure. I just don't get why, drunk or not, you'd want to antagonize him period.
 

Mammoth Jones

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Oct 25, 2017
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Some of y'alls heightened levels of pacificity would put Jesus Christ to shame.

And I don't mean that as a compliment. That shit leads to the world walking over you.

I remember a motherfucker on this site telling me it's be better to get on my knees and beg if a bunch of racists were going to pull a Rosewood and butcher my family and I.

Folks care more about their ideology than me and mines. Fuck that noise.
 
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I guess you missed the part where that drunken asshole threw a water bottle at him.

And let someone call me the n-word to my face or spit at me. Motherfucker is getting their jaw broken after that.
I did miss that part. There was nothing in the OP that suggested that guy got physical with Tyson, only that he was being an annoying little shit.

If he did get physical with Tyson first, that's a different story. Tyson, like every other person, does have a reasonable expectation to be able to defend himself from violence. Adults should be expected to take insults without resorting to violence, but I do think that if someone fails to keep their hands, feet, objects, and bodily fluids to themselves, the one on the receiving end should be able to defend themselves. But fists should fly only if the offending party got physical first. I stand by my belief that nobody has a right to physically assault someone simply because someone else shit-talked them. A bruised ego does not demand a bruised eye in return, because it's not a proportional response.
 

Mass One

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Oct 28, 2017
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"behavioural expert" era is this forum's worst side i swear

The whole armchair [insert topic here] is the awful imo. Or even worse the "if it was me I would have done Yada yada".

I wish some of the posters had this energy towards the government and the police. Feel like I've seen people killed by cops for alot less then what happened to Mike Tyson.
 

redmason81

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I'm sorry, but It not ok too hit someone for being moderately annoying, even if they are persistent about it

lots of victim blaming in this thread

But it doesn't look like that's what happened. Mike's spokeperson said the man threw a water bottle at Tyson. And I doubt he's going to lie about that given that witnesses could easily debunk it.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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But it doesn't look like that's what happened. Mike's spokeperson said the man threw a water bottle at Tyson. And I doubt he's going to lie about that given that witnesses could easily debunk it.
i'm going off the information present in the opening post, which doesn't mention any thrown water bottles

a thrown water bottle would make the reaction a tiny bit more understandable, but throwing punches is still an unacceptable escalation from a water bottle
 

Griffith

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Oct 27, 2017
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Just as a general question, is there a point at which it should be the responsibility of the airplane staff to ask the man to stop bothering Tyson?

I'm not an expert but I was under the impression that the cabin crew is supposed to act under these circumstances and by these circumstances I mean before they escalate like this.

Once the aircraft is in flight, the Flight Crew is no longer able to leave the flight deck to assess or assist in the resolution of a passenger problem. Responsibility for determining the threat level of a specific situation and dealing with it appropriately now lies in the hands of the Cabin Crew. Cabin Crew training, in regard to unruly passengers, has become significantly more comprehensive in areas such as regulations, early detection, intervention and restraint. In all cases, it is critical that the senior Cabin Crew member and the PIC be kept informed of any developing situation.
Source
 

FFNB

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Oh, I missed the part where the dude was throwing water bottles at him. The fuck?

Ok, yeah, he was asking to get them hands, then.

And, honestly, if he was throwing water bottles at a passenger on the plane, he should have been removed from the flight, post haste.

Like, I'm not a fan of planes. It stresses me out every time I do. I can imagine a scenario where I might lose my temper when I otherwise wouldn't if someone was being super obnoxious, ignoring my attempts to de-escalate, and kept harassing me while I was on a plane. My stress levels would already be elevated since I hate flying, and really just want to get the flight over with.

Just as a general question, is there a point at which it should be the responsibility of the airplane staff to ask the man to stop bothering Tyson?

I'm not an expert but I was under the impression that the cabin crew is supposed to act under these circumstances and by these circumstances I mean before they escalate like this.


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I'm no expert, but I feel like they have to be. My uncle was escorted off a plane once, because he had a panic attack and freaked out, so you'd think a passenger actively harassing another passenger would be enough for them to spring in to action.
 

Griffith

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I'm no expert, but I feel like they have to be. My uncle was escorted off a plane once, because he had a panic attack and freaked out, so you'd think a passenger actively harassing another passenger would be enough for them to spring in to action.

I hope that's the case because if this goes to court it will be another messy nightmare. It feels like this was an oversight by the cabin crew.
 

RedMercury

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a thrown water bottle would make the reaction a tiny bit more understandable, but throwing punches is still an unacceptable escalation from a water bottle
Not trying to do a gotcha or anything but I'm curious, let's say Tyson had to get security on the plane and they had to use force on this guy to get him off the plane or restrain him, would you be okay with them using force on him, and if so what would the difference be with Tyson who is well equipped to take care of the guy doing it himself? Or would you just say Tyson should have let stuff get thrown at him until it reached some degree where force would be justified and there wasn't enough opportunity for things to escalate to that point in this case?
 
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Not trying to do a gotcha or anything but I'm curious, let's say Tyson had to get security on the plane and they had to use force on this guy to get him off the plane or restrain him, would you be okay with them using force on him, and if so what would the difference be with Tyson who is well equipped to take care of the guy doing it himself? Or would you just say Tyson should have let stuff get thrown at him until it reached some degree where force would be justified and there wasn't enough opportunity for things to escalate to that point in this case?
are you saying that tyson's chosen approach of sustained pummeling (the video shows over ten punches) was the minimum viable amount of intimidation needed to get this man to stop?
 

RedMercury

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are you saying that tyson's chosen approach of sustained pummeling (the video shows over punches) was the minimum viable amounts of intimidation time get this man to stop?
You answered my questions with a question! Mike Tyson is more an expert on punching than any of us probably, and looking at the guy's face he did not look to get it that bad, watching the video those blows look very much pulled compared to what Tyson could have done so I do think he probably had in mind not to severely damage the guy. I think punching is pretty universal for annoying the shit out of someone deliberately and throwing something at them, the same with shoving or just grabbing someone up and getting them to the ground, any of those are reactions a normal person might have to that situation. It might not be the minimum viable amount sure, but most people in that situation aren't doing the calculus on what the minimum viable amount of force they can use is.
 

The-JUV

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Oct 25, 2017
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Oh, I missed the part where the dude was throwing water bottles at him. The fuck?

Ok, yeah, he was asking to get them hands, then.

And, honestly, if he was throwing water bottles at a passenger on the plane, he should have been removed from the flight, post haste.

Like, I'm not a fan of planes. It stresses me out every time I do. I can imagine a scenario where I might lose my temper when I otherwise wouldn't if someone was being super obnoxious, ignoring my attempts to de-escalate, and kept harassing me while I was on a plane. My stress levels would already be elevated since I hate flying, and really just want to get the flight over with.



I'm no expert, but I feel like they have to be. My uncle was escorted off a plane once, because he had a panic attack and freaked out, so you'd think a passenger actively harassing another passenger would be enough for them to spring in to action.

Yeah I do wonder if it had been a black person or other visible minority who refused to leave a white celebrity alone, how fast the airplane staff may have actually intervened so that the situation didn't escalate to where it ended up? Rather, this individual was allowed to keep badgering Mike Tyson to this point with everyone being so quick to attack Mike for his actions.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Victim blaming?

Era just keeps delivering today.
from my perspective this man is clearly the victim of assault. whether you think the victim "deserved it" or not, in most countries this would lead to a conviction and months behind bars. mike tyson would have 100% been hit with assault charges here in sweden, and would have 100% gotten convicted thanks to the presence of video evidence, regardless of whether a water bottle was thrown first or not
 

Griffith

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I can't help but find myself shaking my head in disagreement at people saying that the point is "you shouldn't mess with Tyson".

I don't condone violence but NO ONE should be subject to this type of harassment, specially on a plane with a crew trained for, and with the authority to, handle these situations. I blame this on the cabin crew more than anything.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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You answered my questions with a question! Mike Tyson is more an expert on punching than any of us probably, and looking at the guy's face he did not look to get it that bad, watching the video those blows look very much pulled compared to what Tyson could have done so I do think he probably had in mind not to severely damage the guy. I think punching is pretty universal for annoying the shit out of someone deliberately and throwing something at them, the same with shoving or just grabbing someone up and getting them to the ground, any of those are reactions a normal person might have to that situation. It might not be the minimum viable amount sure, but most people in that situation aren't doing the calculus on what the minimum viable amount of force they can use is.
universal in 'murica maybe. in most other countries this is open and shut assault, regardless of whether a water bottle was thrown before or not. it's hardly universal from an international perspective

the airline should have dealt with this situation by politely showing the annoying drunk the exit before the situation developed into assault, but that doesn't make the perpetrator of assault blameless
 
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Royalan

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The victim is the Black man who would have been minding his business if not for an adult white man who couldn't keep his goddamn mouth shut and instead begged for assistance in getting it shut.
 

skillzilla81

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Just as a general question, is there a point at which it should be the responsibility of the airplane staff to ask the man to stop bothering Tyson?

I'm not an expert but I was under the impression that the cabin crew is supposed to act under these circumstances and by these circumstances I mean before they escalate like this.


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Probably thinking that Tyson can take care of himself.
 

FFNB

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I hope that's the case because if this goes to court it will be another messy nightmare. It feels like this was an oversight by the cabin crew.

For sure. It just doesn't make any sense to me that they'd not escort the guy actively harassing one of the other passengers off the plane, and let it continue to escalate like it did.
 

The-JUV

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Oct 25, 2017
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so many white ppl in this thread just showing they have no idea what their privilege affords them in the real world.

you flip this situation and have a drunk obnoxious black person or visible minority who refuses to respect the personal space of a famous white person (fuck doesn't even have to be famous in this situation just white lol), and that individual will be immediately told to leave the person alone by the staff, and if they refuse possibly even arrested. It's even likely if the staff noticed that individual was drunk or somewhat intoxicated prior to boarding the plane, they would already be watching their actions in case a situation escalated. Oh but when it's the white person who is slightly intoxicated, nothing to worry about let that person go about their business, which I guess includes straight bothering a black person until he decides to remedy the situation himself and it becomes his fault.
 

FFNB

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Yeah I do wonder if it had been a black person or other visible minority who refused to leave a white celebrity alone, how fast the airplane staff may have actually intervened so that the situation didn't escalate to where it ended up? Rather, this individual was allowed to keep badgering Mike Tyson to this point with everyone being so quick to attack Mike for his actions.

Yeah, I wonder as well.

Is it a coincidence that my uncle is Black, and they didn't hesitate to get him off the plane when he had his panic attack? Maybe. But then again, this is America, so probably not...
 

Royalan

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Oct 24, 2017
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so many white ppl in this thread just showing they have no idea what their privilege affords them in the real world.

you flip this situation and have a drunk obnoxious black person or visible minority who refuses to respect the personal space of a famous white person (fuck doesn't even have to be famous in this situation just white lol), and that individual will be immediately told to leave the person alone by the staff, and if they refuse possibly even arrested. It's even likely if the staff noticed that individual was drunk or somewhat intoxicated prior to boarding the plane, they would already be watching their actions in case a situation escalated. Oh but when it's the white person who is slightly intoxicated, nothing to worry about let that person go about their business, which I guess includes straight bothering a black person until he decides to remedy the situation himself and it becomes his fault.

Lord... The truth.

And did anybody check on Amy Schumer?

Is Amy OK?