I totally get that. I grew up with both an N64 and a Playstation. I have fond memories of Banjo-Kazooie and the Crash games. Personally I was more attached to Banjo and the DKC games. I remember thinking it was strange Banjo was not in Smash 64 or Melee. So years later when I discovered Rare was sold off I was gutted.
I bought a 360 for Rare's games alone. Tried Kameo and PDZ at launch and eagerly awaited the new Banjo game after Microsoft dropped a teaser in 2006. Still tried mustering hype when it was reannounced as Nuts & Bolts in 2008, and completely lost hope when Microsoft restructured the studio to focus on Kinect.
This comic I made describes my feelings throughout that decade.
This comic describes my feelings after Banjo was announced. This was over a decade of closure for me. Banjo and Kazooie, back home with Nintendo for one last hurrah.
I've always liked Crash Bandicoot. It just never crossed my mind to have him in Smash until Cloud got in. After that happened, it really felt like the doors were open to just about any third party. I hope you get him! I want to see him, too.