Conditional-Pancakes Thanks for the link to the interview!
Frankly, I think you guys make the writing of the show sound more thorough than it actually is. The show takes shortcuts in establishing Max's emotional state, and that leads to cracks. There is a reason large chunks of the fandom currently are bending over backwards to either whitewash Billy to justify Max's grief or to point out how horrible he truly was because they don't understand why she would grief at all. You could argue both sides are missing the point, but that whole discussion wouldn't be necessary if the show laid things out as nicely as you did and made her grief comprehensible in those same ways.
Frankly, I think you guys make the writing of the show sound more thorough than it actually is. The show takes shortcuts in establishing Max's emotional state, and that leads to cracks. There is a reason large chunks of the fandom currently are bending over backwards to either whitewash Billy to justify Max's grief or to point out how horrible he truly was because they don't understand why she would grief at all. You could argue both sides are missing the point, but that whole discussion wouldn't be necessary if the show laid things out as nicely as you did and made her grief comprehensible in those same ways.