I think there's maybe a misunderstanding here or at least some common ground that isn't being talked about.
I think MOST here don't think this level of upgrade (new trophies and suits, ray-tracing, new assets, improved hair and faces, as well as your normal better framerate/resolution/draw distance) is not WORTHY of a $20 upgrade.
The problem many of us had is that we didn't NEED it to be this extensive. We would have just liked a free upgrade patch. Improved framerate, resolution, draw distance, loading times, stuff like that.
So I think there is some kind of factor in there that makes the people mad not understand the people defending it, and vice versa, and I think this is what it comes down to. We are just mad that they're upgrading the game and making it paid instead of doing a goodwill gesture and giving us a free less extensive upgrade.
Heck, I would have been fine with them releasing this paid remaster if they had given us a smaller upgrade for the existing owners.