I'm doing a rewatch and am about to rewatch TASM2. I recall really _hating_ the whole parent subplot, the Norman plot, and them never going anywhere with it. But I do recall the Spidey scenes being pretty good. Other than that, I also remember it being emo at times.
All the movies are enjoyable in their own ways. I don't even like Tobey in the role very much, but his movies are enjoyable too and they all put their own spin on the character, which is interesting. I think, personally, I've just grown out of the blinded fanboy and the entitled persona that comes with that and try to enjoy the adaptations that these are and what they do with it (obviously there will be things I don't like, as above). Like, I no longer care about it not being "my" X, or Y. I have a version of it, nothing lasts forever, let's see this new spin on things, let's hear it. I can just revisit "my" one whenever I want. Actually, the best thing is that movies have come such a long way that it's exciting to know that future generations could bring further news actors, stories, etc to us. We might not like it, but it's exciting. Nicholas Hammond was for one, Shinji Todo for another, Tobey for them, Andrew for those, Tom for today... who knows what tomorrow will bring - I might not like every version, but I try to enjoy where I can being an overall Spider-Man fan (applies to other heroes and characters too).
