Anyone with a brain has noticed the traditional markers of adulthood have become harder to obtain compared to other generations.
Personally, I think these traditional markers are BS, in most cases. If you want marriage and family, I'm all for it, but that's not the only life template.
However, it's clear that attaining these, along with others, such as moving out and fending for yourself is empirically harder. Wages are lower, real estate, including rent, is way more expensive, especially compared to percentage of income.
I personally know many folks that lived at home post college to save up to buy a house. A good strategy, IMO. However, at least in American culture, this can be shunned (see Shaq's statement on his sons).
Moreover, I also know people that stuck renting because they moved out, rented, never had a chance to build out a downpayment, and are stuck renting without any end in sight financially. They "grew up" and moved out early, but strategically, they made a mistake. I'm not talking abusive situations. I'm taking about situation where you do get along with your parents. Immigrants commonly have multigenerational housing because they have less generational wealth and some come from more collectivist cultures.
But I do wonder with people with young children today. It seems the US housing crisis or North American housing crises (check out Toronto) is not abating. If it was hard as heck for Millennials to buy their first homes, most of time requiring two incomes, what about Gen Z and below?
The biggest trends I can see:
It seems North America is failing hard here and no solution in sight. Inequality will only get worse it seems.
Personally, I think these traditional markers are BS, in most cases. If you want marriage and family, I'm all for it, but that's not the only life template.
However, it's clear that attaining these, along with others, such as moving out and fending for yourself is empirically harder. Wages are lower, real estate, including rent, is way more expensive, especially compared to percentage of income.
I personally know many folks that lived at home post college to save up to buy a house. A good strategy, IMO. However, at least in American culture, this can be shunned (see Shaq's statement on his sons).
Moreover, I also know people that stuck renting because they moved out, rented, never had a chance to build out a downpayment, and are stuck renting without any end in sight financially. They "grew up" and moved out early, but strategically, they made a mistake. I'm not talking abusive situations. I'm taking about situation where you do get along with your parents. Immigrants commonly have multigenerational housing because they have less generational wealth and some come from more collectivist cultures.
But I do wonder with people with young children today. It seems the US housing crisis or North American housing crises (check out Toronto) is not abating. If it was hard as heck for Millennials to buy their first homes, most of time requiring two incomes, what about Gen Z and below?
The biggest trends I can see:
- Moving to low cost of areas. Something accelerated by the pandemic
- Retiring outside of the US. Pensions are dead. Many don't fund IRAs/401k, so many are going retire broke sadly.
- The rise of multigenerational housing. This is currently happening. You see this very prominently in Hawaii, for example, a HCOL state.
It seems North America is failing hard here and no solution in sight. Inequality will only get worse it seems.