Does your sister know that you made a thread on the internet about her were people are calling her insane and a controlling lunatic? Or did you leave that bit out?
Do you normally tell people that you asked for advice in situations?
Does your sister know that you made a thread on the internet about her were people are calling her insane and a controlling lunatic? Or did you leave that bit out?
Sister will have A Talk with him when they get home.Also what's stopping the Brother-in-Law from selecting the scantily clad women?
I think the vast majority of the talking she does isn't with her husband, but with Jesus.
I know you're joking but I know a few "Christan Households" that see Pokémon as pagan spirit worship.oof, imagine missing out on Bloodborne cuz your mom/wifes religion lmao.
inb4 she has issue with you giving the future kid a New 4DS bundled with Pokemon Gamma
oof, imagine missing out on Bloodborne cuz your mom/wifes religion lmao.
If you truly care about your wife, you'll be cool about her controlling what you can and cannot consume behind your back with zero respect for your opinion. That's true love.
I love From Soft and think they do high quality work, but Bloodborne is not only rather gory but it's also a horror story about a crazy occult cult trying to summon demons into the world. Giving it to someone who lives in a religious household that is strict about media content is just asking for trouble. There are plenty of other high quality games that are family friendly that can be given as gifts if the gift has to be a video game. Personally, whenever I want to give a gaming gift to a friend of mine, I'll just give them a gift card to their digital shop of choice (Nintendo/Sony/Microsoft/Steam) since that way they can pick out something that they really want. And if he really wants to play Bloodborne, well, that's a talk he can have with his wife with no outside input from others.
In general, "Don't give any M-rated (or content questionable) games to anyone before finding out the media rules in their house" is a good rule of thumb to follow.
This is pretty much it.Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
... perhaps drop an off-hand remark that she should talk to her husband about the topic as well? More communication is always a good thing, especially in a relationship.I did ask her what her husband thought of all this, bloodborne, etc, and she said she didn't know.
Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
What an astounding failure to see the bigger picture. It's not really about video games, it's about someone not having the right to decide what their partner is "allowed" to be exposed to, without even acknowledging their right as a human being to have their own decisions in regards to what they consume. You could replace video games with anything else, like ideologies (and judging by "no evil spirits in my house" thing, I feel like certain ideologies might be exactly the kind of thing that's on her 'my husband is not allowed to be exposed to this, and I will ensure he will not be exposed without him even knowing" list.) And the issue is still the same.A 10 page thread about a relationship none of us are involved in lmao.
Let them get on with their lives. Videogames aren't that important to everyone.
its like a half joke since i know those actually exist lmaoI know you're joking but I know a few "Christan Households" that see Pokémon as pagan spirit worship.
Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
What an astounding failure to see the bigger picture. It's not really about video games, it's about someone not having the right to decide what their partner is "allowed" to be exposed to, without even acknowledging their right as a human being to have their own decisions in regards to what they consume. You could replace video games with anything else, like ideologies (and judging by "no evil spirits in my house" thing, I feel like certain ideologies might be exactly the kind of thing that's on her 'my husband is not allowed to be exposed to this, and I will ensure he will not be exposed without him even knowing" list.) And the issue is still the same.
imagine being able to care about a loved one but also allowing them to enjoy themselves in entertainment no one but them have to take part in and one that could continue to grow a relationship with another member of the family in a positive direction.
Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
also the husband is a grown man! who married this woman! he doesnt need your sympathy he gets to make cultural choices that are different than what you or i would make
.Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
Just had a decent conversation about this with my gf.
Turns out, if I was secretly deciding what she could and could not consume (media, food, drink, types of conversation, exposure to ideas, anything) and then going one step further and trying to actually orchestrate the removal of these elements by talking to people behind her back to make sure she wasn't exposed to it, all without ever so much as asking her opinion on the matter; she would leave me for being the controlling, manipulative fucker I would be.
Seriously this is really messed up.
Good luck to your sister and her husband. Each to their own, but the OP and updates sound incredibly petty and highly irrational. Leave it to them to sort out and just stay out of it OP.
Christian homes are well known havens for the filthiest porn.I'd like to believe her heart's probably in a good place, but a "Christian home"? It's a bold move Cotton, let's see if it pays off.
she remembers master Willem's adage is allGrown adults who "can't" play whatever ordinary video games they want, religious puritanism and a fear of Bloodborne because "blasphemy".
I don't think you know what Petty and irrational means.Most Era topic in a while.
Grown adults who "can't" play whatever ordinary video games they want, religious puritanism and a fear of Bloodborne because "blasphemy".
Video games will be the least of the concern in a relationship that potentially controlling and/or rooted in religious extremism.
Good luck to your sister and her husband. Each to their own, but the OP and updates sound incredibly petty and highly irrational. Leave it to them to sort out and just stay out of it OP. If her husband wants to meet those requirements then there's nothing for you to do.
Christian homes are well known havens for the filthiest porn.
Jesus won't know as long as you remember to use an incognito window.
I'm probably off in crazy land here, but this mixed with the whole thing the sister said implying the BiL (potentially) had a history with female violence is turning this thread pretty dark.You could replace video games with anything else, like ideologies (and judging by "no evil spirits in my house" thing, I feel like certain ideologies might be exactly the kind of thing that's on her 'my husband is not allowed to be exposed to this, and I will ensure he will not be exposed without him even knowing" list.) And the issue is still the same.
Good job not reading. I'm wondering if you're just trying to see how many "lol at this thread" posts you can get in a single page.
I don't think you know what Petty and irrational means.
That op had a resonable talk with his sister to find out why and resolved the conflict in a respectable manner.
Fake Edit: Never mind, I'm an idiot who can't read properly apparently, carry on