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Instant Vintage

Unshakable Resolve
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Oct 25, 2017
2,979
My 6 year old already knows he won't be playing Fortnite any time soon. He's asked once, but I think it was more of curiosity because his uncle (who's 19) plays and he's caught a glimpse or two.

Minecraft is his thing right now. Period. He doesn't care about any other game. Maybe some time in Splatoon 2 if none of his friends (read: my friend's children) are playing Minecraft at the moment.

Fortnite is a huge no-no for him, just because of how predatory the MTX can be and of course, assholes on mics.
 

ThreepQuest64

Avenger
Oct 29, 2017
5,735
Germany
The game itself is fine, in my opinion. It's the MTX and emotes and skins and dances etc I'm worried of. Kids literally get bullied when using standard skins whilst playing with they class mates. I've heard such stories and my teacher friend could unfortunately confirm it, too.
 

DarrenM

Member
Oct 28, 2017
2,705
Make sure you disable receiving PSN messages from strangers, at a system level. I've seen some threads where the people find out it's a young kid and still be toxic, or even send porn images/links.
 

F34R

Member
Oct 27, 2017
11,987
Nope. My kids did play Halo at that age, but in multiplayer with only me and them, and they played tag mostly lol. I wouldn't let them play competitive shooter games with others at that age though.
 

Swiggins

was promised a tag
Member
Apr 10, 2018
11,444
I wouldn't let a kid near an online game until he was at least 11 or 12, there's just too much toxicity in online competitive games.

Hell I'd be reticent to let a kid that young play Minecraft online.
 

Typhoon20

Banned
Oct 28, 2017
1,568
I would never let my child play Fortnite. Or those type of games. Filled with microtransactions, getting kids addicted to buying things is bad. I notice this from my nephews and their friends at school and it trickles into other stuff. Entire generations are getting addicted to buying 20€ skins, it's not just the price, but the addictive nature of it. And it doesn't stop with 1, every day, week a new thing comes and it feeds their addiction.

So in short. I wouldn't.
 
Oct 25, 2017
6,033
Milwaukee, WI
Well let's see here, what could he do instead?
Ya gonna buy a 6 year old a guitar? Are there small children sports teams in the covid era? Watch TV?
Come on. This is safe. Turn off voice chat and text chat and dont ever let him buy anything. But let the kids have a bit of serotonin!

I could seriously ramble about this all day. Let kids see and play whatever the fuck they want WITHIN REASON. Bunch of cartoon characters using cartoon guns and building sheds? That a lot more tame than old warner brother cartoons.
 

AJUK

Member
May 28, 2019
532
I'd say it was fine, surely there's shooting and stuff in cartoons anyway, just turn off any communication features and limit the time.
 

aember

Member
Oct 26, 2017
1,026
The game itself is fine, in my opinion. It's the MTX and emotes and skins and dances etc I'm worried of. Kids literally get bullied when using standard skins whilst playing with they class mates. I've heard such stories and my teacher friend could unfortunately confirm it, too.
Yep. The game itself is fine, but the skins aspect is terrible for kids. Had a former coworker complain that his little brother always bothered him to buy the expensive skins because the kid's classmates kept ridiculing him for using the default and battle pass skins.

The microtransactions, the limited time stores (the whole FOMO thing) are something kids shouldn't be experiencing at such an age.
 

OtterX

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Mar 12, 2020
1,795
I'd wouldn't let my kids play shooters until they're older. Like 8 or so. What about roblox or Minecraft? Those seem better for a six year old.
 

dimelo

Banned
Apr 13, 2020
138
MIA
Let him play with y'all but stick to the rules his mom laid out. Fortnite is also pretty tame when it comes to violence..no blood or gore. That kid has probably seen worse watching cartoons.

It's harmless fun.
 

MistaTwo

SNK Gaming Division Studio 1
Verified
Oct 24, 2017
2,456
Buy them Splatoon instead as it's more fitting for a kid that age and a better game as well. ;)
 

Alek

Games User Researcher
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Oct 28, 2017
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Literally, speaking no.

Personally speaking; I'm no parent, and while it's true Fortnite isn't blood-soaked or anything, I dunno if I'd give it to a six year old regardless. It's still got fairly realistic weapons and it might give them some bad habits once the salt sets in (though I'd say honestly, supervision could go some of the way to avoiding that, at least). If you do let them play, just make sure the mic is off (though I'm not sure if Fortnite even supports mic chat for people that aren't on your team; I just switch it off and use Discord anyway)

If it were me, I'd just keep them on stuff more their intended age group for now; nothing wrong with Mario and Sonic and what have you. But on the other hand, it's not like you're giving them Call of Duty or something, so I suppose it could be a lot worse.

That's not 'literally speaking'. That doesn't mean that the game isn't designed for kids, it means an outside ratings board have deemed it to have a certain age rating based on fairly arbitrary determined values that may or may not align with your personal beliefs and parenting style.


To the OP, I think the best approach would be to ask what your concerns are if they played a game like this? In the OP you wrote...

I have second thoughts now.... should a 6 year old really be allowed to play such a game....what do you guys think?

But I have to ask, what are you concerns here? The literature linking violent video game play with violent behaviour is extremely weak, there's plenty of literature that indicates that within moderation, video games have cognitive benefits. Do you think shooting other players is too violent for a child? It's pretty cartoony violence. While the game does feature real-ish looking guns, they're not real guns.

Ultimately I would ask yourself what your concern is here in terms the potential impact that this could have on your child, and look into whether that concern is well founded. As I said, the literature on video game aggression is very weak. Personally I would be most worried about exposing my child to manipulative monetisation systems at a young age, where their impulse control is quite limited. But that's not what most people are concerned about when they think about age ratings, and many games for children have pretty gross monetisation (e.g. Mario Kart on mobile).

The communications side of thing is a concern too, but if you're only playing in a party together I think that side of the game would be fine. Perhaps there's a way to enable streamer mode so that you can't see the usernames of other players too (you can do this in Apex Legends).

It might also be that, living in the UK I have a softer view on the 'shooting' side of the game. Firearms aren't accessible here, shooting isn't something you can do anywhere other than in a video game. It's a fantasy activity that holds no real-world counterpart. So exposing a child to a game with guns may depend on your environment (e.g. if I kept a gun, then I would probably avoid exposing my children to games where guns were used like toys).
 
Oct 25, 2017
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My son is 6 and I wouldn't let them, though I also wouldn't let them watch it. Harder situation when you have the older kid playing though. I understand what a pain it would be to try and enforce separation whenever the older kid is playing.

For reference, my 6 year old plays minecraft (solo) and mario games mostly. He's actually playing through Mario 3 right now and up to world 7. I let him play 1-1.5 hours a day.
 

En-ou

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Oct 27, 2017
2,839
How is this even a question? No. Kids at that age get influenced by everything they're exposed to. Guns and killing are not what you want them having fun with.
 

MrConbon210

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Oct 31, 2017
7,646
What about if they let the kid play in the party game mode where you can just run around and stuff? Would your answer change then?
 
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Buddy

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Oct 25, 2017
1,295
Germany
Thx fo the insight guys....

I will monitor his behavior and talk to his mother if I notice something concerning.

He will only play with his brother and me. So toxic voice chat isn't a problem.