What is disheartening is the thinly veiled moralising by turning an extremely complex issue into a case of black and white. She is a victim, but she also supported, and in some ways owing to her lack of remorse, and own statements, continues to support a murderous death cult that committed genocidal acts.
No amount of abuse absolves her of her own actions, so she must be held accountable.
It is not despicable, or islamophobic to not feel a great deal of sympathy for someone who could "what about" a bombing in Manchester. She from various reports, actively participated in enforcement of ISIS ideologies, and helped stitch other humans in to suicide vests, that couldn't be removed.
No amount of abuse can ever absolve the responsibility she bears for her actions and as stated, seemingly continued support for the destruction of "enemies of Islam"
That said, she should be brought home to face trial for her actions, and if possible, work to reintegrate her back into society. I find it hard to believe she'd ever be able to do so though, given her new born son, who bears none of the crimes she committed, died as a direct result of being abandoned by the UK Government. I honestly can't see how she would be able to ever forget that.