Some dudes just can't get off from a bj. You may be one of them. Do whatever you guys feel like you should do to enhance the experience, but it just may not happen. It's neither your fault or hers.
I'm kinda like this, too. Sometimes it just isn't gonna happen, but maybe ask her to use her tongue a bit more? Might help. But if it's really not working, it's just something you can cross off the list.
Man I came in here to say pretty much the exact thing.
better shape, change positions, stop stimulating like go please her for a minute with your mouth or hands.
Frankly, take your time and go slow. There is no rush, and trying too hard will make the experience unenjoyable for both of you. Try to do different things, and even different kinds of lube.
Oil lube and silicone toys is okay, but not for ones with internal pockets. Oil is too hard to clean from silicone for it to be safe for long term use. You'd probably be alright using it with a single use toy like a tenga egg or cup, but those are pretty pricey for a single session. Shopping around for a water based lube that you like best or dislike the least may be your only option for a multi use toy with an internal pocket.
I have oral herpes from parents who didn't really care if they infected me or not, but I don't really have a lot of experience with this conversation in a dating or hookup scenario. You'd probably exchange your most recent test results and current STD status with a potential partner before you engage in skin to skin contact of any kind (since herpes can be passed through asymptomatic shedding, you're contagious at all times) in a neutral setting in an ideal situation.
Fingering a woman. At first I thought it was about how the OP/OPs SO wanted more than 2 fingers inside.
I was thinking this, but what advantage do multiple fingers allow for?
I don't think it's a joke. And I don't think there's an advantage to using more, some women might just enjoy 3-fist more than 2. And I guess it's more about that the 2 finger method feels the most natural, at least to me. I usually use 2 when I do it, 3 feels uncomfortable for me.
This made me chuckle. Now everytime I do this I'm gonna have an image of a sock puppet in my head :D thanks!
It's just that I'd like to try the thinner one i.e. elite but it's a bit tight/uncomfortable when putting on and takes longer/requires some adjustment even if it's fine once put on...so I'm hesitant. The large size on the other hand is totally comfortable, just that it's not as thin.
Was hoping maybe I'm not getting fully erect yet as it's still healing or something..
Huh? Maybe it's afraid to get to full strength? (like when there ere still stitches in). I mean, they just cut the foreskin so they didn't shorten your penis.
