Your post was certainly read as 'well, there's nothing else to do if folks like it'.Of course. Nowhere did I say that's not how change happens. What do you think I'm even saying? I said "it sucks" for a reason.
Where did I say it was ok? Nowhere did I say it was "futile" either.
What?
Can you find where I said we should ignore how terrible of a person she is? I even said it sucks in my post. You need to relax and stop assuming I'm saying people need to lie down when the reality is I said "well she went through all of this stuff, I doubt this'll be the thing that does her in, this sucks." Nowhere did I say you don't need to voice your complaints nor did I say you don't need to try so I'm wondering where you're coming from.
Dudes really be on edge on this forum just because you don't say what they want you to say. Me saying "well shit hasn't worked in the past and it sucks" doesn't mean "damn you need to not care and lie down." There's a reason why the first thing I said is "I get it."