My interest in this forum has waned over the years. The site has become more hostile, aggressive, and unwelcoming. Long-time members have been leaving steadily for a while now or are hiding in OTs that slowly get dismantled. New members are harder and harder to come by as forums fall from popularity. I was going to post my thoughts and suggestions. I've been part of this thing for well over a decade. I have an emotional attachment to it and desire to try and help. Bring in a level-headed point of view. I wanted to try and start a discussion here about ways to improve.
But after seeing this thread evolve and circle back around to SalesERA, I was reminded this isn't a place worth fighting for anymore. Reminded why I stopped contributing in the general forums years ago. Not because of some owner. Not because of some mod/member relationship issues that are completely fixable. But because the soul of this place isn't what it once was. That joy when we first came here, where everyone was legitimately happy, is gone and the community has grown into some spiteful hate-filled group. There are good people here, but they get drowned out so quickly. There is good discussion to be had, but it's gate-kept and immediately polarized. Positive topics get 100 views and 10 replies while negative topics get thousands. It is no surprise this thread is full of negative hypothetical situations and finger pointing instead of the community banding together.
It isn't hard for OT communities to splinter off and leave when the general idea of ResetEra is no longer worth fighting for. If their community feels attacked they pick up and leave because the general ResetEra isn't what it once was and it isn't worth the effort/fight to stay here and make it a better place. If it was there would be more earnest discussions with mods to rectify problems. The community system worked here because everyone used to still tie back to the general forums. That tie got severed somewhere along the way. People say the OTs are the back-bone of this community, but they really aren't, there needs to be something that holds it all together, a larger sense of community. That was the ideal when we came here.
I think the community needs to look itself in the mirror and seriously consider they may be the ones to snuff out what good is left before MOBA even has a chance to because they've been doing it for years now. Worry about that first.
Just wanted to say, I really appreciate this post and totally understand where you're coming from. A ResetEra with - as you put it - "a larger sense of community" is what I fell in love with early on. It's still here, I'd contest... but in spurts, not streams. (OK, look, I've been up for like 35 hours so forgive any weird-sounding vernacular.)
#MakeCommunityReign