Have I been doxxed?
How about listening to the OP, instead of shitposting statistics? What does the poverty rate have to do with him, when he says he will have no problem getting another job if he returns?Maybe you should check out Peru instead of shitposting. 34% poverty rate is a well documented issue.
Better yet, he can do it online. I lived in Japan about 6 months total while doing online work. It really wasn't that expensive - I lived on about $2000-2500 USD per month in Tokyo.Move to Mexico. Plenty of UX/UI jobs in here, visas are easier/faster to get, people in industry are not racist, food is good and quality of live is good, same language, cheap and quality educational opportunities.
Work on your Japanese, get some job experience, apply to Japan while eating some taco
Also, I would absolutely not trust a visa sponsorship on some Japanese company.
Japanese job culture is horrible. Couple that with isolation, culture shock and lack of funds. Sounds like a TERRIBLE time.
Move to Mexico. Plenty of UX/UI jobs in here, visas are easier/faster to get, people in industry are not racist, food is good and quality of live is good, same language, cheap and quality educational opportunities.
Work on your Japanese, get some job experience, apply to Japan while eating some taco
Tacos here are mierda ;(Reasonable advice. Come to Mexico! You can watch anime, take some japanese clases and play japanese videogames here, too! Does Japan have tacos? Maybe. But are they good? They are not good. Case closed.
You're also an English native speaker so finding an English teaching job was a less challenging task than it'd be to the OP.I moved to Japan without a job and found one. Ended up living there for two years. This was after I already spoke Japanese and lived there for a year before, though.
I think your plan could result in a sudden return home. Whatever you do decide, I recommend that you start studying now. I have a handful of friends that saved money and went to language school in Japan until they were N2 or N1 level in Japanese. These people are all pretty successful. If you could afford it, that'd be my top recommendation.
What's witholding you from learning the local language? Just curious.
And food/having a roof to sleep under are more valuable than experiences, just saying.
So he fails and decides to jump ship before losing all his money - how exactly is he moving to SE Asia? We don't even know how much money he's taking to Japan. Plane tickets, rents, food - this is all expensive, especially coming from a Latin American country.If he begins to run out of money he can fly home or to a cheaper country. It's not super complicated. If he is destitute then it doesn't really matter where he is, but it doesn't seem like he's that desperate, unless I missed something. He's educated and has skills, he can work online from SE Asia if Japan doesn't work. It doesn't have to be all or nothing, be a huge success in Japan or be starving on the street while salarymen walk over his lifeless corpse.
Again I think he'll fail, his plan is dumb. But he could succeed. It's worth a shot.
If he begins to run out of money he can fly home or to a cheaper country. It's not super complicated.
So he fails and decides to jump ship before losing all his money - how exactly is he moving to SE Asia? We don't even know how much money he's taking to Japan. Plane tickets, rents, food - this is all expensive, especially coming from a Latin American country.
So Vern, your point is that he should follow your dreams, but don't you think it'd be a much better idea to plan this a bit more? Does that really ruin the magic of "following your dreams" for you?
Yeah, that's not exactly how this story ends. The reality is that most people will simply keep trying to make their dreams come true until they're pressed against the wall of failure.
I'm all for the mentality of chasing after your dreams. It's how I lived the majority of my life. Coming from that experience may have taught me a few things; especially the idea that it's often better to plan for failure than it is to plan for success. Success isn't a straight arrow that you somehow stumble upon when you're following your dreams. You will fail. You will have to pick yourself up. You may even find yourself homeless (which I've been there as well). The more prepared you are for the inevitable failure, the better off you'll be.
The idea of following your dreams without much regard to the repercussions isn't very wise, especially in the modern world. Things have changed in the last 15-20 years.
Hey, that's cool and all, but he'd probably prefer to succeed. Succeeding is better than having a "great story". Succeeding is a pretty great story too.I'm saying of course he should plan more, in an ideal world. But dude seems rash and naive, and overly optimistic and maybe a little simple even. And I think that's a good thing. So many people, especially on this forum, are so insanely negative, it's nice to have some threads like this sometime. I really don't think he would ruin his life by going to japan and realizing he made a mistake and then coming back home. It'll be a great story and a great lesson.
If this adventure really does end with him being destitute then fine, it was a bad decision and I feel bad for encouraging it, but someone with his apprent education level and skill set shouldn't have any trouble earning money. If he does end up homeless and penniless it's not because he went to Japan though, it's because he has a myriad of other problems.
There is no magic to me, with regards to following your dreams. Following your dreams is just being true to yourself and what you really want from life. I'm saying that failure isn't such a bad thing, especially when it comes to your hopes and dreams. I've failed plenty of times. I've been nearly broke. Guess what? I survived, I learned, I grew, I became more realistic (but still optimistic) and I make a lot more money now. And I'm not sitting at home wondering "what if?" That last part is the most important.
So... you are not interested in offering him any constructive advice, you are only interested in promoting positivity on the forum at the expense of someone possibly getting bad advice and failing because you think it's worth it? What a selfish dick.Again I think he'll fail, his plan is dumb. But he could succeed. It's worth a shot.
Hey, that's cool and all, but he'd probably prefer to succeed. Succeeding is better than having a "great story". Succeeding is a pretty great story too.
And honestly man, you don't know how tough it is to move to the "first world" from a Latin American country. Tokyo is absurdly expensive for us and he'll see his savings disappear in front of his eyes (this is me talking from experience - and I had the huge crutch of having Japanese relatives here in Tokyo who saved my butt a couple of times back in 2016).
i'll add "man, don't move to a country without having visited it for a quite large amount of time"..Don't move to another country without having a job there, please. Also, don't move to another country without a job there if you don't speak the local language.
So... you are not interested in offering him any constructive advice, you are only interested in promoting positivity on the forum at the expense of someone possibly getting bad advice and failing because you think it's worth it? What a selfish dick.
Obviously if the dude doesn't know when to change course to avoid disaster then the story will end badly. Again that's not a Japan problem or a problem with his dream, that would be a personal problem.
So... you are not interested in offering him any constructive advice, you are only interested in promoting positivity on the forum at the expense of someone possibly getting bad advice and failing because you think it's worth it? What a selfish dick.
No actually you haven't. All you have said is "it's a bad idea and you are naive but DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE ADVENTURE! Who cares if you lose money and fail?!" over and over. Fuck off.Hmmm I don't think that's what I said at all, but you do you. I offered plenty of constructive advice in previous posts. Dick.
So... you are not interested in offering him any constructive advice, you are only interested in promoting positivity on the forum at the expense of someone possibly getting bad advice and failing because you think it's worth it? What a selfish dick.
No actually you haven't. All you have said is "it's a bad idea and you are naive but DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE ADVENTURE! Who cares if you lose money and fail?!" over and over. Fuck off.
Another dick. Great.
Y'all promoting keeping possessions like they matter so much. Who gives a shit. Dude has skills (apparently), he can work online. He can try different things if and when Japan doesn't work. Again unless i read it wrong he's not destitute, he can sell his accumulated belongings and have a try in Asia. He can work online thanks to his marketing and design experience. He can try and (probably fail) to get a job as a brown dude teaching English without a visa. Lots he can do, if he tries. Actively discouraging him is the dick move. Telling him a realistic scenario but suggesting alternatives Is the right thing to do.
OR HE COULD PREP MORE AND THEN DO ITY'all promoting keeping possessions like they matter so much. Who gives a shit. Dude has skills (apparently), he can work online. He can try different things if and when Japan doesn't work. Again unless i read it wrong he's not destitute, he can sell his accumulated belongings and have a try in Asia. He can work online thanks to his marketing and design experience. He can try and (probably fail) to get a job as a brown dude teaching English without a visa. Lots he can do, if he tries. Actively discouraging him is the dick move. Telling him a realistic scenario but suggesting alternatives Is the right thing to do.
30 is not "too late" if he gets serious about learning Japanese yesterday. And I'm not talking about monetary success - I'm talking about OP coming to Japan and being able to enjoy it with knowledge of the language, a proper job, a full stomach, and without the prospect of having to go back to Peru in red numbers.Then let's hope he succeeds. I wish him the best.
If I were in his shoes I'd rather he go now than "plan" for 2-3 years like others suggested, suddenly I'm 30 and It's "too late" or I accidentally got my gf pregnant or my mother is sick or something shit like that and now I'll never try.
Stories are worth more than you think. I'd rather have a lot of stories than a lot of money to give my kids. Lucky i should
have plenty of both, and the second is thanks to the first.
Another dick. Great.
Y'all promoting keeping possessions like they matter so much. Who gives a shit. Dude has skills (apparently), he can work online. He can try different things if and when Japan doesn't work. Again unless i read it wrong he's not destitute, he can sell his accumulated belongings and have a try in Asia. He can work online thanks to his marketing and design experience. He can try and (probably fail) to get a job as a brown dude teaching English without a visa. Lots he can do, if he tries. Actively discouraging him is the dick move. Telling him a realistic scenario but suggesting alternatives Is the right thing to do.
He never once said himself that he would be able to work online. He will kill his dream by being a drain over there. People wont even give him a chance with all the missing skills and him being brown. Why even take the risk when he does have nothing except for a Bachelor from Peru which nobody will care about over there. Do you even know about the situation over there? It's like some people send him off wasting everything he ever had for nothing.
Why not let him take a vacation for a few weeks first and See how people will react to him as a tourist? :)
The scholarships to japan cut off at 35, he will have difficulty entering language school around that age too. You def want to be in japan before you are 35 i think.30 is not "too late" if he gets serious about learning Japanese yesterday. And I'm not talking about monetary success - I'm talking about OP coming to Japan and being able to enjoy it with knowledge of the language, a proper job, a full belly, and without the prospect of having to go back to Peru in red numbers.
I think Vern secretly hates the OP and is trying to push him to ruin his life.
Aww, nothing part-time at the Tokyo location? :/ That's too bad. If I hadn't re-signed with one of my current jobs for the rest of the year I'd definitely apply.Yo both of our offices are looking for staff atm, and that includes stuff like overseas marketing, community management and such.
https://www.snk-corp.co.jp/recruit/employment/index.php
We need all the help we can get so apply and/or spread the word plz.
Y'all promoting keeping possessions like they matter so much. Who gives a shit. Dude has skills (apparently), he can work online. He can try different things if and when Japan doesn't work. Again unless i read it wrong he's not destitute, he can sell his accumulated belongings and have a try in Asia. He can work online thanks to his marketing and design experience. He can try and (probably fail) to get a job as a brown dude teaching English without a visa. Lots he can do, if he tries. Actively discouraging him is the dick move. Telling him a realistic scenario but suggesting alternatives Is the right thing to do.
vern trying to live vicariously through the OP and takes it personally when people say its a dumb idea i guess?
Yep. In another timeline i would love to see Vern reading David - kuns journal and seeing how he digged into shit. On the other Hand i wish no harm in Davids case at all and would support his decisions if He had a better plan prepared.