Great responses in this thread, learning how to manage your anger is really important and will benefit you in other areas if you life as well. Anger is a tool, but only if used in the right way. Some things that help me:
One of my driving instructors hammered home that the best thing to do with people like that is to get out of their way. It's not satisfying in the moment, but it's the best course of action, for two reasons:
- First, if someone is driving unsafely, it's far better for them to be in front of you instead of behind you. There's nothing you can do if they do something dumb and hit you from behind, but letting them pass gives you the option of avoiding them, which leads to...
- The second point is that people driving like that have a much higher chance of accidents/injuries/tickets. You might not see it when it happens, but over time the odds will catch up with them. So when they go speeding past you, just picture yourself in 5 years with a clean record, while the other guy is walking with a limp from the multiple accidents he's been in, and has lost his license. Set your future self up for success.
And an anecdote from years ago - I worked in the suburbs of the Twin Cities, and found a side road to take home since the freeway (494) was a total shitshow at rush hour. My route was a two lane road mostly, but occasionally reduced to one lane for turns and the like. One day, some guy behind me was pissed off that I was going the limit in 30 mph residential area, and was tailgating me, honking, etc.
This goes on for a bit, and then then at a light it opened back up to two lanes briefly. He floors it, passes me via the left turn lane, and flies by me at 50... only to have a copy on foot pop out of the bushes in front us, and give him that "you're fucked" point as the cop gestured him towards a side road for a ticket. The cop had clearly seen that whole thing, that guy was not just going to get a simple speeding ticket. I was grinning ear to ear on the way home. It's the only time I've seen someone face consequences in the moment, but that behavior catches up to people eventually.